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John Mayer Slams Ex: "Stop Contacting Me!"
Friday March 7, 2008
John Mayer pictured at the Cosmopolitan Fun Fearless Man Of The Year Event held at Cipriani New York City on March 3, 2008.
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Friday March 7, 2008
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John Mayer — one of Us’ cads of the year — is fed up with one of his famous exes!
The singer, 30 — who recently impersonated Borat — wrote the following letter on his Web site, but asked fans not to "read too far into this on a personal level. (There are no hidden messages)… I just thought it sums up how crazy love can be.”
“Dear Ex Lover,
“Perhaps you didn't understand the last time I told you to stop contacting me, so I'll do my best to spell it out for you. I do not wish to have you in my life anymore.
“I don't know how much more clear I can be about it. It would serve you best to move on with your life and find someone who can put up with you, because I'm done trying.
“I hope this is enough closure for you.
“Goodbye.
“P.S. If you need me, you know how to find me."
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Posted by Lindsay Powers at 9:41 am ET
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5:01 AM
Anonymous Says:
2:06 PM
marie Fournier Says:
well i love johnmayer he is a good guy hopfully
and well i think i he should just go out with me
not these stupied hot girls that dont evern know things about music or even play an insturment
but yup if he reads this he needs to go back to the old days when he wasnt as popluar and needs to find a nice,chill,hot,sweet,and musically compatable girl like me
but who knows maybe he will one day
but untill than
im avaible
love always mariesical
aka marie Fournier
hehehehhe <3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3
12:20 PM
Anonymous Says:
When did this guy go from being a good guitar player and hanging with cool people like Eric Clapton to being fodder for the celebrity gossip rags. People who read celebrity gossip are the least educated, fattest, stupidest people on earth, when you start getting covered in this kind of media the stink stays on you and you are tarnished with it forever. Any loser hack can get covered in a celebrity gossip rag, but few people can actually play guitar as well as he can, he should concentrate on what matters not on the trash that read these kind of mags.
9:20 AM
Anonymous Says:
Don't do this and don't do that. Goodbye and then PS - if you need me, you know where to find me.
And people think women are a piece of work. Talk about being so definite one minute and then at the end, enticing more contact!
I know - he was just being a "friend". Same old stuff. Relationships are such hard work with cross signals like that one.
Looks like a publicity stunt. When does he graduate from high school?
11:33 PM
Not a Man I'd Want Says:
Did you see this guy in his string bathing suit? He really left some question in my mind. I just don't get the thrill over him or over Jessica Simpson. Sure, she has a great voice & nice tits, but that's it. Enlighten me please!
9:39 PM
Anonymous Says:
He could just be messing with the media. i would do it if were a celeb.
11:51 PM
Anonymous Says:
11:32---COO COO!
11:32 PM
Anonymous Says:
Ok, so now JM has written a so called love letter. He is a heart breaker.... I think he is still in his high school mentality of how many hearts can I break in order to enlarge my own ego.. generally men up to 38-45 do this.. because they cannot grow up. They always look for better and always dump because of moods. Unreal. I love JM! He is sooo talented and beautiful, but a serious heart breaker, it seems. He breaks fans hearts too, I feel... by letting them in on his personal affairs...He is so stuck on dating celebs... there are amazing people out there, that are not famous, but are pretty phenominal and much more enlightened than him, I wish he would open his eyes to that and heart. His circle is very limited. Try to be intuitive John, to people who are trying to make connections with you... now just curious who the one is he just wrote about this time? This gets confusing for those of us who are in love with him, but he will never take a second look even if we are drop dead gorgeous, because he is shut off to non celebs, and in his elite circle. Bummer. And I guess i have to throw out the pictures I kept under my pillow at night, of him that are so beautiful and dreamy and here I thought just maybe, you just never know, people do find each other... but not those who's hearts are closed and limited... and have too much material stuff around them, including the loud clubbing. Not that it is wrong, it isn't, it is all a choice and what is meant to be is meant to be. :(
John, What if, just what if, your soul mate wrote back to you on blogs and you had never met her before, and then you suddenly corresponded online and were in shock when you met because the entire world had seemed to stop just so you could meet one another. What if? Are you even spiritually in tuned to that?
If you really want your soul mate, you kinda have to be open to every possible opportunity there is... and the world is a very small place...you never know where she is hiding... :)
10:04 PM
Anonymous Says:
Man Alive! You people are such knuckleheads. Pea-sized brains will never understand John Mayers brilliant sense of humor.
LONG LIVE CONTINUUM!
9:43 PM
Anonymous Says:
He was writing it to a man friend, no doubt.
4:31 PM
Anonymous Says:
I'm sorry but couldn't he have simply said straight to her face that he didn't want to be friends and that he didn't want to talk to her anymore? I mean, if he was being too subtle that she didn't pick up on his hints that he wasn't into her, then be blunt. Say, I'm sorry if this hurts your feelings, but I'm just not into having a relationship with you. It's rough but still a lot better than having it out there online. It probably isn't Jessica Simspon because she seems enamored with Tony Romo and I doubt with her dating track record that she would put a serious relationship in jeopardy to remain friends with an ex, let alone someone who seemed to control her and toy with her emotions and who seemed to have broken up with her. Jennifer Love Hewitt dated him ages ago and she's blissfully engaged to Ross McCall. That leaves only Minka Kelly or Cameron Diaz, so really, you're not protecting anyone by leaving out their name. He should never have posted that period. Grow some balls and be honest and upfront with the girl instead of bringing what was a very private issue into the public domain.
8:43 AM
Stephanie Says:
I think his comments were not words that he said, but words said TO HIM. Especially based on his latest comments about the story twisting one way and then completely reversing itself. He's a cad and one of the girls didn't want him in her life anymore because of the drama he creates. After all, look at his blog...pure drama.
6:31 AM
Anonymous Says:
think it is about Obama....
11:19 PM
Anonymous Says:
7:05 PM Anonymous Says:
6:13, ARE YOU FOR REAL? LOL. That was FUUUUUUUUUUUNNY! Who on Earth dedicates Mariah Carey songs anymore? That gave me a flash back to 5th grade, 1989, Roller Skating, dedicating Mariah to my 5th grade boyfriend. He loved it!
Interesting that you mention dedicating a Mariah Carey song to someone in 1989, considering that she didn't come out with her first album until 1990!
11:01 PM
Anonymous Says:
I used to like John Mayer (in addition to his music), but for some reason, he's turned out into such a big cad! What a turn off! Just keep on singing and stop talking, John!
8:36 PM
Anonymous Says:
WHAT A TOOL...... Nothing like being so stuck on ones self that you have to come up with a "fake" letter trashing a past girlfriend!!!!! And yet he really hasnt been with anyone for long periods of time!!!
8:29 PM
Anonymous Says:
John Mayer may be famous, but he's still about the fugliest dude I've ever seen.
7:39 PM
Anonymous Says:
John Mayer is such a loser! His not at that there much better guys that show more respect to woman. He sucks along with his music!!!
7:19 PM
Anonymous Says:
I heard "Heartbreaker" after a friend sent me this link. It just seemed appropriate for this junior high school drama!
7:05 PM
Anonymous Says:
6:13, ARE YOU FOR REAL? LOL. That was FUUUUUUUUUUUNNY! Who on Earth dedicates Mariah Carey songs anymore? That gave me a flash back to 5th grade, 1989, Roller Skating, dedicating Mariah to my 5th grade boyfriend. He loved it!
6:13 PM
Anonymous Says:
SNAP! I dedicate "Heartbreaker" by Mariah Carey to Mr. Mayer. And two words of advice... CHOOSE WISELY.
5:24 PM
Billy Bob Thorton Says:
Whitney is whack! Whitney had a crack attack. You like that? Ben Afleck? Just say no to smack, Jack. Oops, I stepped on a tack and fell on my back.
4:07 PM
Anonymous Says:
exactly 3:58 or this is for ashton's new show about the papparazzi (like the Paris / Swammy deal) am I the only one to fail to see any humor in this idea? I just don't get it?! How is that teaching the papparazzi? It's just...stupid.
3:58 PM
Anonymous Says:
It's not about anyone in particular. It's rhetorical.
The postscript negates everything he says in the body of the letter. This illustrates, as he says, how crazy love can be. Having said that, I'm sure he's enjoying all of the speculation. I really don't find this guy especially appealing on any level.
3:39 PM
Anonymous Says:
I'm confused....he is so adamant about this person not contacting him anymore...so why the "if you need me you know where to find me". WTH? Why so she can find you and you can tell her to get out of your face? Sheesh!!!! That should be a private thing between him and her not put in a place to blast her so everyone can see. Have some class man.
3:30 PM
shelby Says:
hes ugly, i cant believe poor jessica was so desparate to stoop to going out with him
3:26 PM
Anonymous Says:
If it were to be about any of the girls listed above, it would so be Cameron Diaz.....she's totally got the whole crazy ex-girlfriend vibe going for her (hello...her little confrontation with Jeissica Biel & Justin Timberlake at the Oscars last year!!). The girl can't let stuff go, and seriously who can blame her after seeing John in the banana-hammock?!
2:47 PM
Anonymous Says:
I think it is about TR Knight....
2:42 PM
Anonymous Says:
1:34pm me-you are EXACTLY right
2:28 PM
Anonymous Says:
His music sucks. I am embarressed for his fans. He is arrogant, NOT talented and has horrible taste in women.
