Well, folk, it's over before it began. Publicity stunt. She wants to be a has-been instead of a never-was and he wants to be on TV and in US magazine. I don't give a crap about Marla, but if Andy would just be quiet for once and beg Tessa to take him back, I think she would. I am positive that is what broke them up---Andy's media whoring.

Andy is dating Kerry P. from season 6 and I live in hawaii and I know this for a fact.

If it is ok for an old/older man to pursue a young woman then why not the reverse? I found Tessa totally unsexy, boring, no boobs, no buns, no posture etc. and why Andy picked her baffles me other than perhaps her Asian looks.

Andy is dating Mallory from Season 11. I live in Hawaii & I KNOW this!

I turned 44 in February, and my husband will be 34 in May. We have two girls aged 8 and 5, and we have been together 12 years and married for 10. I don't see a problem with their age difference especially when you see these old geezers sometimes 25 years older than their wives. Big deal.

I belive its time we that we leave Andy and Tessa alone, give them time ,evtl they will be back together or not. only true love will prevele
I would not want my relationship draged trough all cheap media here.
Give them the space the deserve!!!!!!!!!!!
for myself
i belive the are a couple that matches and i have had my hopes high ..........

privacy is important

I cannot stand Marla Maples...She broke up Donald and Ivana's marriage, and that sent Ivana over the edge...Trapped Donald by having a baby ....(the oldest trick in the book)...Marla and Marla's mother were after Trump's money...and she got it, and now she is set for life...

Wake up Andrew!!! You seem to be a real nice guy ...

All I can say it that there is something special about these two (Andy & Tessa)! The truth will prevail!!!
To all of you people you don't care for these two,PLEASE keep your coments to yourselves!! Andy & Tessa have been publically scrutinized for over a year now,LET THEM BE! Just because they went on a show to find love doesn't give you the right to judge them! They too are human just like you & I,with real feelings and real lives! I'm quite sure you wouldn't want complete strangers in your personal business day in and day out!
Andy, you are 100% correct when you stated "just human"! Follow your heart,have faith and believe! I wish you the best!

Tessa is definitely not dating anyone else......she still loves Andy but is terrified of a committed relationship.....other poster here have been right on the money with that!! Andy is not dating Marla either.....he considers her a friend and sounding board........however, she is probably the last person he should be taking relationship advice from. As for Marla's true motives...it is anyone's guess........she is very self-absorbed but covers it up with lots of spiritual sounding talk....if Tessa and Andy could get away from all the media hype and the televison crowd ....they would stand a great chance of a lasting relationship. It is a shame Tessa couldn't have held out until Andy got to Washington DC....his life will be totally different there!!!

Andy and Tessa complemented each other so well. Wish Tessa would have stayed true to her words. She did seem to have commitment problems.

All of us make mistakes - one who really cares for the other person accepts that it takes giving and forgiving to make a relationship work.

I do not believe that Andy is dating Marla. She does not fit what he is looking for in an ideal wife. too old and not into sports. What we have heard is how much Andy loves Tessa, but does anyone know how Tessa feels about Andy. Does she really love him our just playing with his emotions.

Well said anonymous 8:37.......so true......just let me add that Andy fully admits that he made many mistakes with Tessa.....however, Tessa is not without mistakes herself.......but, guess what people, that is what makes a true relationship and usually makes it stronger in the end. Andy just wants a true and strong relationship with Tessa. As for Marla, she is at best, a good friend to Andy, and at worst, a wanna be star who is getting attention by hanging on to a good looking younger man and pretending to counsel him. I am not sure anyone, even Andy's friends or Andy himself, are totally sure what her true motives are.

Andy is still in love with Tessa and is having a tough time getting over her.
Tessa (on the show and since) has given Andy mixed signals, somewhat of a commitment phobe. Not much different in real life than on the show, it's all there to see.
They are not together though and Marla is a friend and advisor.
Andy is leaving Hawaii soon.

Tessa took Andy off of her Face book page, and Andy took her off of his. He is so stuck on her and all the videos they had together. If I were Tessa I would demand for him to remove them all. That is the past, he is obsessed with her and can't take rejection. What a bad influence he is showing others that look up to him. Isn't it strange how so many girls from the show have found significant others. That speaks volumes for Andy. LOSER.

Andy needs to take advice from Matt Grant. Matts parents are older and so he didn't grow up with his dad participating in very many functions.

Andy will find the same thing if he continues with Marla. The children won't know their mother past 18. And for their friends she will look, and be talked about as their grandmother. How sad for the children.

I would just love to hear what his Grandpa thinks of this!