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FACEBOOKI've been through a verbally and physically abusive, as well as controlling, relationship. Let me just say, from experience, I am not nor was I a fragile or weak person when I met my ex. If you know much about control you know that men who are controlling have to spend a certain amount of time breaking down your confidence. They must actually TRY to make you feel terrible about yourself. Once you have no self-confidence it's pretty easy to control you. I would assume that in Britney's state of recent divorce and everything else she was going through this guy didn't have to break her down very much. She probably already didn't have a whole lot of confidence and he recognized it, swooped in, and took advantage. All he had to do was be a good friend for a little while to get her to trust him. I doubt very seriously that she's a "fragile or weak person". I assume that someone used her at a weak and fragile time in her life. It's truly sad how many men there are that do this on a regular basis.
Wednesday December 5, 2007
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Since last summer, when Britney Spears' pal Sam Lutfi appeared out of nowhere, the 33-year-old so-called film producer has become an integral part of the pop singer's life.
He's called Ryan Seacrest's radio show to denounce rumors that she's pregnant, organized her 26th birthday party and stayed overnight at her homes — platonically.
But in the the current issue of Us Weekly, there may be good reason for concern.
Lutfi has had two restraining order against him for violent verbal and physical attacks, according to complaints obtained by Us, and has gone by multiple aliases, including Osama N. Lutti and Osamah N. Lutfi.
In a 2005 complaint, Jumana Issa, a business acquaintance, claims Lutfi "harassed me repeatedly with obscene e-mails, offensive faxes, telephone voice mails (around 1 a.m. to 3 a.m.), out-of-control behavior and outrageous telephone hang-ups (around 15 to 30 a day)." In one fax, Lutfi scolded: "Peel yourself away from all the candy ... and overhangin [sic] belly ... and answer my e-mails."
His former neighbor, Douglas Snoland, filed a similar complaint in 2004, alleging that Lutfi tried to kick down his front door when he suspected Snoland of having his car towed. Snoland also accused Lutfi of wanting to kill his 73-year-old disabled mother. In the complaint, Snoland accused Lutfi of saying: "I will beat your ass ... Your mother is a f-----g old hag. You are a f----t. You will regret the day you ever met me." Lutfi’s attorney denied the threats, but a judge granted a three-year restraining order to Lutfi to stay at least 15 feet away from Snoland and his mom.
As for his past work history, he is listed as a producer of the 1998 B-movie Bug Buster on imdb.com. The movie's actual producer and director, Lorenzo Doumani, says Lutfi was his $350-a-week assistant. "He was a hustler type, a fast-talking kid," recalls Doumani.
Now Spears' pals worry he is in her life under false pretenses. "They are frightened," a source close to her parents, Jaime and Lynne, tells Us. "They know she is being taken advantage of."
"She's so desperate for a friend that it's easy once you get in there," adds a pal.
For more on Spears and Lutfi, pick up the new issue of Us Weekly, on newsstands now.
Tell Us: Do you think Lutfi is a bad influence on Spears?
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I think Britney and Sam are Soulmates. Her parents made a big mistake by taking out a restraining order against him. He has been trying to help Britney. I think she loves him to. She deserves to be loved. I want her to get well because she is so talented. I love her album Blackout. I understand Britney, because i also am Bipolar. Quit blaming Sam.
where were her parents before? Britney was deep in trouble before this guy showed up! The father of her two children is the real scum bag for letting her sink like this.
i wrote yesterday and i think she needs to get out of the spot life right now and go somewhere far far away . Has anybody noticed that she went downhill after the divorce from kevin? Maybe Sam had something do with that decision? I think she need to get her man back which means shell get her kids back and just take a brake from the music business and focus on herself, kids and the father of her kids and get her life back and also get rid of this Sam Lufti character he just doesnt seem to helping her in any shape or form. If anything hes seems to making it worse for the girl. Britney needs some piece and quiet with her kids, She has lost everything, her life, her kids, her music career is going down the drain and here are all the media just looking for something else to publish. Leave the girl alone before she turns into a princess Diana, the paparazzi killed her they will kill britney she just needs her life back but with her kids. Its just my opinion i just think everything turned crapy when she got divorced from kevin and i think that has alot to do with all of this
What is it about manipulator that you don't understand. Howard Stern and Lutfi came out of the same dirt bag. Mr. Stern know he was not the real father. This is not about Anna Nichol, or Britney. This is about mind-entrapment, when someone works on your mind day-after-day they plant doubts and negative thoughts in your mind - HELL YEAH I'D HATE MY PARTENTS TOO. The troubled person now think they have a ral friend who understands them, takes care of them, loves them. The result is mind control and comes to a point they don't know anymore what's right from wrong. Any sane person knows you do not control another person!! Girl, stay close to your Mom and Dad as corny as that sounds.
Get well. Please leave Britney alone and may God return her children to her soon.
he's destroying britney
My first question has always remained the same,"Does Britney even know she's sick?"
Aside from the above, I've never trusted any so called news from, Hollywood - for all we know the whole negative feed-back loop of Britney is one massive publicity stunt.
Or Hollywood is a disease in itself - how many celebrities eploit there diginity in this type of circus.
But if it is real ,then,"ouch!"
I think ya'll should just STOP with all the accusations towards EVERYone involved with this Britney situation ... If SAM is at FAULT for anything ( It will come out )For now we should just ALL hope for the BEST interest for BRITNEY and her wellbeing RIGHT at this point ... She NEEDS to get BETTER to be the MOM she once was ... And to get the HELP she NEEDS ... AND for the PRESS LEAVE the POOR girl ALONE .. ALL of you PUT her where she is along with OTHER STRESS & BADNESS ... Her children NEED her & I understand YOU take a CHILD away from it's MOM ... And she WILL GO CRAZY ... GET well BRITNEY ( Shawntay xo )
This little scammer monkey Osama Lufti belongs in jail, he is human garbage.
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I really feel sorry for Britney. I remember when she announced she was divorcing Kevin.. thinking.. FINALLY she was going to get it together. She replaced one loser for another. How very sad. Hearing about him drugging her and controlling her.. her downward spiral isnt so surprising now. It all makes sense. I sincerely hope she gets the help she needs. For her sake and for her children's sake. She had so much going for her. I really wish the very best for her. Britney is in my prayers.
poor poor britney thats mind controling b------.he should be shot. she lot her kids and her mind because of that ass---- i feel really sorry for her i think britney brill and if she got help sooner she would not be this state.i glad her mum step in at last.i hope she get better and come back with force.good luck britneyxxxxxx
I have said all along that the problem with britney spears was her managers, and they should be viewed as criminals and treated as such.
grind up Risperdol and Seroquel into food? That would make anyone batty'er than hell.
he is seems to be real pimp and bastard . he should be in jail.
what are we doing. put him in jail. who the hell is to control Britneys life.
Howard K. Stern was in love with Anna Nicole, he worshipped her. He did everything for her because he was in love with her. This sicko Sam Lutfi..AKA con artist, piece of crap, loser,opportunist, pimp, scumbag, abuser..did these things "for" Britney only because he loved himself. Drugging her? 2 previous restraining orders? WTF?
Hiding her dog on her? I hope she is starting to wake up in this hospital and get some clarity on the situation..and stay away from this freak. I love the people on here that are supporting him and saying he was nothing but a very good supportive friend, and he has nothing but her best interests at heart. COME ON! Her life has been in turmoil since she met him. What exactly has gotten better? It was getting worse and worse. Every week it was something different. All while he was there. Do we need to recap all the ways her life has gone down? What exactly was he doing for her? I put out a challenge to the idiots on here to name something positive that has happened in her life since he has been a part of it. Go ahead..I am waiting.
BUT at the same time I must say she must have been a pretty fragile and weak person to allow this to happen. That is very very sad.
To her parents I want to say..IT'S ABOUT TIME! It's about time. I hope she is trusting them, and seeing what is really happening here.
this guy is a SLEEZE!!!!! what a PIECE of TRASH he is to play on this poor girls situation!!!!!!!! She is no saint, but he is not helping the situation.
To the ignorant that think she's has no money left, obviously you are completely in the dark. She has and still gets a lot of money. She brings in over 3/4 of a million dollars every month.
i know this "lutfi" guy from high school days back in IRAN.
he was a trouble maker and a jerk then.knowing his personality i am not surprised how he found his way from a middle class neighborhood in IRAN to Britney Spears life.he was a guy with no morale and he would do anything to take advantage of people.i feel sorry for Britney Spears.
Another Anna Nichol Smith situation? It seems so simple but it is one of the hardest things to recognize the person behind the driving force manipulating, brainwashing a fragil person with issues. Once this person has gotten the "confidence" of another then he goes to work. What kind of work? Well for instance, comments like: "I'm your only friend, nobody understands you like I do." "Your family does not understand you, I do." In time this evil person gives the poor victim doubts about family and friends. If he Mr. Sam Lutfi were a real friend (but this is his sickness "control") he would not say negative comments about her Mother and Father. How sad to manipulative a victim and make them feel that their family is against them. Take a real look at those pictures of her Father and Mother; they look tired, scared, bedraggled and only fear for your child can bring this on. Please stand firm and get that monster away from your child.
She needs to take time out but not in a ward. Maybe she should go to some vacation fare a way where people don't know who she is, like rural India or where ever. Like- for more then six month. If she wants to get a grip over her self and not being forced to make decision on the double. Then get a body guard and a lawyer who travels with her to get control of her own person. Take yoga classes and let the rest of the world make fools of them selfs.
Her life must be hell at this point, oh by the way where are her friends ?????
Exploited as a child as a sex object - parents allowed a young girl at age 11 to be infuenced at a very young age what her life would be all about - I am sure the parents loved the fame and the money at the expense of their beautiul daughter - poor girl never knew any other way of life - married and had two children with someone who is looking for the big child support check kinda like Howard Stern looking for the meal ticket - hires a manager with no credibility looking for the meal ticket - desperately fighting to get her fame back the only life she knows - Britney becomes depressed why not. poor relationships, pressure in a work einviroment - two chldren closely born - a divorce - people monitoring her wweight, calling her train wreck - paparazi and the media ripping her apart doing her most fragile state, shame on them and all of the people who even suggest that she created her own world, it was her only world. What happened to compassion, the poor girl has been suffering for over a year and finally hit the bottom. what she needs now is everyones love and support and hopefully some doctor will have an influence to make Britney well again. The list is long of celebrities who are no longer with us because of the entertainment business, I hope to God that someone gets through to this girl that she does not end up another casualty of the entertaiment business. While she lies troubled with no hope may we all give her that hope by saying positive things and supporting her in this hard time of her life.
I'm glad someone eventually noticed that usually when you feel worst "so called friends appear" and take advantage of you like this guy, Sam Lufti.
Someday Britney's gonna wake up from this nightmare and regrett having had such bad company around. Get well soon!
She's got a good heart it seems but unfortunately has been f-'d over by the industry, her "friends" and some of her family. I'm really glad to see that her dad is running the show now, for good or bad. He is her father. Enough said. As for Lutfi and Adnan or whatever the f- his name is...they're gold digging f*cks who thought they'd cash in on their 15 min of fame and fortune.
Take the girl away from it all...let her get well and regain her confidence. She's only 26...she has so much more life. Let her live it.
Anyone who can honestly sit here and spend their time dogging a woman who has made some poor choices that have caused her life to publicly spin out of control, to the point that her parents need to take control is heartless and should be seeking help themselves for being so cold and hard!! We ALL have made poor decisions, yet we don't have the world watching us and judging us! "Let all who have not sinned cast the first stone" Leave this poor woman alone to get it together, she is lost and needs help!!
You animals are very amusing.
Britney is likely severely mentally ill. This is a condition that she can not control by sheer willpower. If we take these two premises as true, then KFed had *nothing* to do with her decline other than perhaps it accellerated once they divorced. If Brit is bi-polar, we can extrapolate some better theories here, including 1) it was probably hell for KFed to be her husband and live with her and have a stable relationship, especially since she was undiagnosed at the time 2) the bi-polar was probably masked by having a semi-stable relationship 3) it probably exploded out of control not because she "suddenly" became sick, but for the first time in her life she didn't have anyone "handling" her 24/7 that was semi-reliable (ie: her parents or her husband). Folks, she has an illness, and it spiraled out of control in a public fashion because of her celebrity status. Thank goodness her children are now safe and she can start getting more serious treatment. Stop blaming KFed (he didn't "do" it to her) and on some level, stop blaming Britney (she needs serious medical help). Annika
Let's all say a little prayer for Britney.
We all know she has sung some great songs.
We all know that she is one of the most successful entertainers in town.
We all know how every guy in town would die to get their hands on her and her money.
And how, when she is alone she will simply fall victim
to every crook and gang of criminal minded persons in town.
Especially when she has been completely, and emotionally, been drained by all her so called high society high flying friends, disappearing lovers, alimony crazy beggar of a husband, and finally...
THE MEDIA which thinks her personal problems is a million dollar earning circus show that must be broadcast to the whole world so that everyone can laugh at her problems in mock sympathy and evil delight.
Lets all pray that not only britney, and her family members solve their problems, but also that the whole world will stop behaving like this, as though - HER LIFE - is a television game show or a voyeuristic fantasy.
I agree---Britney you poor lost soul!! I want to be your friend. I would take care of you... People stop using her..And, Brtiney, stop letting people use you! We still love you ..May God Bless you !!!
Britney my dear..... poor poor lost soul... you are still the sh!t no matter what anyone says dont let them get you down.. they're just haters... Take a few months find yourself and regroup Its a new year and though you may not have started it on the right foot i fully believe that you will get through this... Remember what doesnt kill you only makes you stonger... If not for yourself your children.. they NEED you... and as for kevin jsut try and be civil for the sake of the boys... Your going to have to deal with him forever so just make the best of it.. This new guy Sam..? just be careful if he has been the friend you need then awesome, but be careful people are cruel and manipulative.. But I love you and youll forever have a fan here... Noone is perfect and if camera crews followed me around they have worse to say.... and i know im not the inly one that feels that way...
