Tori Spelling: Yes, I Worry Dean Will "Cheat" on Me
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In her new book Uncharted terriTORI, Tori Spelling writes that she worries husband Dean McDermott could cheat on her.
But on Ryan Seacrest's KIIS-FM radio show Monday, she tried to downplay the remark.
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"I'm a normal girl, and I worry about that stuff," she explained. "You know how girls are! Girls get jealous. You have to deal with that living all the time. It happens. We are who we are."
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Spelling, 37, said her husband, 43 -- with whom she just renewed vows to celebrate their fourth wedding anniversary -- is confident in their relationship most of the time.
"He doesn't really get jealous," said Spelling, mother to Liam, 3, and Stella, 2. "I feel like an oddball being jealous all the time."
Despite a few on-air spats with McDermott on their Oxygen reality show, she said he is "great."
Not so great these days? Her relationship with her former 90210 costars.
With the exception of Jennie Garth, "All my 90210 cast members hate me!" the actress declared. "Jennie and I are still friends."
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She said Tiffani Thiessen -- who gave birth to daughter Harper Renn in L.A. June 15 -- "doesn't talk to me anymore."
She thinks it's because her life went in a different direction.
"We were all great friends during 90210, we were friends after 90210, and they all came to my first wedding," Spelling said. "All of a sudden I marry Dean and I don't know what happened. I lost all my cast members."
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131I think Tori and Dean are REAL, and their shows are probably the most real I've seen in a long time in reality shows. They both live individual lives together and it works for them. They appear to really love each other and accept each other no matter if it's good, bad, or ugly. That's what's real. The fairytale no worries no fighting happy ever after story that everyone is looking for is the Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty fantasy that we all (yes myself included in times past) have bought into at one point or another. That's exactly what has left us disappointed and skeptics. But truthfully speaking, real life isn't all kicks and giggles it's hard, it's challenging and when you pair two people together to share their lives as one, then the reality of it is, it's not going to be perfect. But as long as it's good for them, and is their best version of perfect that's all they (or any of us) could really want. I like Tori and Dean, Tori has grown up alot since 90210 she's found her footing and I think the girl deserves credit. Dean really loves her and the two children. And even though she's blonde, the girl has brains, she's artsy and creative, has a heart and is a good mother and that makes her adorable in my eyes. :)
If you believe something to be true it becomes a self-fufilling prophecy. She's going to drive him away with her obsessive fears. Of course, nothing's worse than doing something wrong and having the same thing done to you. However, Stella and Liam had to be born, and the only way that could happen was for it to go down the way it did. As for her looks, she's cute without all that makeup she insists on plastering all over her face. Tone down the crayon yellow hair, make it light brownish red . Wear the glasses all the time. Gain at least twenty pounds. She's alright.
she 'earned' her role on 90210? R U serious? Ummmm, you think she was given the role because of her stunning beauty and her amazing acting ability? If you believe that, then I have some oceanfront property in Arizona I'd like to sell you for a million bucks!
i sais it before and i'll say it again - tori - you are one ugly beast! ugh - i wretch!!!!!!!!!dean - what were you thinking when you dumped your pretty ex-wife for this frightful drag queen?
It's alright Tori I hate you too.
I drop by these sites occasionally when I'm bored. I mean, why would Tori Spelling expect anything other than a cheater??? He was cheating on a wife when she laid him. What is so pathetic is that your man is a cheater when you meet him, then you feel you are sooooooooo special, he will change overnight for you. If he stumbles on a better deal, yes, hes gone. He's an opportunist, just as she is. The pot can't call the kettle black. She has well grounded fears.
People in glass houses should not throw stones. Translation: People in Hollywood should probably not judge people based on amount of plastic surgery, homewrecking abilities, divorce rate, etc... Maybe they don't like her because she's unlikeable? Just because she is wealthy, famous, perky, and has kids doesn't mean in 'real life' (whatever that means for people out there...) she is likable.
I think she should just relax. Nobody is going to want Tori Spelling's sloppy seconds. As for her cast members, maybe they're afraid her ugly will rub off on them. The girl is just plain rough on the eyes.
I am appalled by the negative comments placed by those who deem themselves non sinners. Shame on you! Tori and Dean, you are beautiful people and you don't deserve this treatment. God Bless You and Your Family.
How could she possibly not know what happened? When people discover you're a home wrecker, and you can't see that what you've done is reprehensible, people lose any respect they had for you, and they naturally want to distance themselves from you.
I love them together, but nothing in life is guaranteed. Live your life and hope for the best.
I think there's no need to worry about him cheating for several reasons. He's ugly, she is his gravy train and what woman would want him after what a cheater he turned out to be with Tori "Hussy" Spelling? Yuck! Please, Tori, no longer worry or be jealous. You are stuck with that guy.
And to Kia - you are an ignorant, horrendous human being that deserves to be slapped and kicked to the ground, literally - and I'm a non-violent person! How DARE you write something so horrible about a child!!!!
I read her first book and loved it and loved her and who I thought she was. I cried reading it b/c of how relatable she was and how much her words reminded me of my own sad relationship with my mother. But now, when I watch her, its like shes like a completely different person. She seems SO insincere and fake now, like she's constantly acting, constantly ON. Its such a huge turn off for me. Especially where I was such a fan and liked her so much for how genuine she seemed. Its actually really dissappointing. And it has nothing to do with her weight or looks and I think anyone beating her up over those things is rediculous, mean and just a waste of time. Beat someone up over something they have actual control over, but looks and often weight dont fall into that catagory. It makes me sad shes such a mess now and not the girl I grew up respecting and relating to.
So they didn't meet under the most pure cicumstances, but they're together now. All Tori can do is hope & pray for the best now. It's probably a good time to also address the need to focus on enhancing her self esteem, self confidence & self worth. When that happens she'll feel a lot more secure about her marriage.
wow all of u guys hating on tori & dean all need to get lives! they are real human being just like us! they go through the good and the bad times together only difference between them and us is there's is on tv..urs isnt! so dont hate! god i thought people were nice in this world..all u haters need to shut the hell up and go crawl back in ur little rabbit holes...cause no one cares wht u all have to say negative! i support t&d 100 percent of the way..and she earned tht job on 90210 not because of he father u idiots! LOVE U T&D!!! ~G
I read her first book, unfortunately, and she really doesn't say anything bad about any of her former 90210 castmates except for Shannen Doherty. I think they probably didn't like her much to begin with and now that so much time has passed, they'd rather just pretend to not like her then do the whole fake thing. I'd be a little irritated that she was on the show, personally, just cuz of her daddy, and the fact that she is grossly unattractive and can't act!! The rest had to earn it the hard way. Anyway, she's right to be worried about Dean cheating. He will eventually, and then he'll leave her for someone pretty
Who cares- Tori needs to retire and never return to TV. The only reason she is still on is because her daddy was a producer. She wouldn't have to worry about her marriage if her values were in the right place and that doesn't include "me" or "I."
Get a life and grow up already!!! Stars are so childish and stupid. Tori, eat a cheeseburger already.
they're both losers. of course she should worry. if he cheated on his wife who is not as fugly, he'll do the same with fugly tori.