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Candy Spelling is glad that she and daughter Tori are finally speaking after years of estrangement.

But don't expect her to dish on their reconciliation.

"We both decided to [communicate] privately, so I know that everyone will respect that because it kind of got out of hand when it wasn't the other way," she told Thursday at the UNICEF Ball in Beverly Hills.

Tori's husband, Dean McDermott, recently told Us that Candy, 63, spent time with grandson, Liam, 2, and even met granddaughter Stella, 1, for the first time.

"Oh my God, she is adorable!" Candy told Us. "She is bright. Well, they both are bright -- what can I say? You know what, they are the most beautiful children, but I am not a prejudiced grandmother!'

She is looking forward to spoiling them around the holidays.

"Of course, I have to have things for them to unwrap, so they know coming to grandma's is a fun place where I have their toys and they get new toys," she says. "But I don’t let them taken them home. They have to play with them at my house."