Exclusive: Ali Fedotowsky, Fiance Roberto Martinez Are "Miserable in the Relationship"

Celebrity News October 6, 2011 AT 1:58PM By UsWeekly Staff

Credit: Jordan Strauss/WireImage.com Ali Fedotowsky, Fiance Roberto Martinez Are "Miserable in the Relationship"

It's been 17 months since Ali Fedotowsky said "yes" to Roberto Martinez's marriage proposal on The Bachelorette. So, er, when's the wedding?

Although Fedotowsky, 27, has blamed the postponements on scheduling conflicts and a kickboxing injury, pals tell the new Us Weekly the issues run way deeper than that.

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"Their relationship has been tumultuous since day one," a mutual friend says of the pair, whose nuptials were originally supposed to be a live ABC TV special. "They're either extremely happy or they can't stand each other."

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Stressed by long, hectic work hours and more, the duo (now living in San Diego) are prone to big-time fights. "They bring out the worst in each other," another source says.

After one especially ugly spat, "Ali was in tears," a friend says. "She's miserable in the relationship and he is too."

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For more on their vicious arguments and whether friends think they'll make it to the altar, pick up the new Us Weekly, on stands Friday.

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October 14, 2011 - 1:19am Linda Daley
Cheryl is this your real name this month? or are you posting as someone else again?! Your mind works on the low road and she has thousands of people are interested in her but apparently your blind jealously gets in the way of seeing just how popular she is! She is between jobs at the moment but there is a job waiting for her when the time comes, Dump her? She is beautiful inside as well as outside with a fabulous personality and many more attributes than you have in your big toe! That aside she doesn't have an extra once of flesh on her body and I saw this first hand last week when I met both she and Roberto. You would have to be brain dead not to notice his love for her and hers for him. So, whatever you real name is , you can give up your craized desire of haveing Roberto to yourself, I would be surprised if you are not the fat miserable loser yourself hiding behind a profile of nonsence too much of a coward to show your face why is that??? i
October 13, 2011 - 9:27am Cheryl White O'Neal
Ali probably put this story out there herself..She's just trying to keep people interested in her...Since when is Ali "working long hours"???? She doesn't have a job! I wish he would dump her and find someone else..She's just a fat loser
October 11, 2011 - 3:37pm Frances Dawley
Leave them alone. They are doing just fine. Friends who can't keep their mouth shut are really not friends. Just saying.
October 07, 2011 - 12:19am Ernest Debrew
Of course, no relationship is perfect. If you can tell me otherwise, then I would like to see proof. I suggest that Ali and Roberto get away from where they are and go on a pleasant vacation so that they can rekindle the feelings. If they don't do that, then we could be expecting a breakup between the couple.
October 06, 2011 - 11:00pm Camille Montgomery
It seemed to me that Ali picked Roberto because she liked his physical appearance. I agree with those who have posted that Ali and Chris seemed better together.
October 06, 2011 - 9:47pm Gerri Page
Remember if she stays together with him for 2 years-24 months, she gets to keep the engagement ring so she will wait it out no doubt.
October 06, 2011 - 9:17pm Jonathan Smith
They are miserable and bring out the worst in each other. Sounds like the perfect match.
October 06, 2011 - 8:02pm Rebecca Anderson
Why does anyone believe this crap? US is trash and and all these people commenting here are as bad as them. It's all fake and she should have picked Chris? Please, Just relax and read something that matters. And to the jerk saying Ali is chubby and it the other brilliant remarks he made, I bet you are a keeper, You haven't seen this before? Can't wait to see their wedding. Then we can all say we told you so,
October 06, 2011 - 7:11pm Michelle Marie
Roberto get rid of her. You are too sexy to settle for her.
October 06, 2011 - 7:02pm Tina Dalman
Why is it none of these 'friends" want their name to be published?? i think US is just trying to sell magazines and saying a "friend" said it is a way to do that.
October 06, 2011 - 6:59pm Amy Peters
interesting because i JUST was on another gossip site with an interview from Ali about their wedding plans and that they have TWO dates picked-one if it's televised and one if it's not. I think they have always been one of the more affection couples.
October 06, 2011 - 6:57pm Jonathan Smith
Calm down chunky Diane, reports are that Roberto is a total player with a wandering eye.
October 06, 2011 - 5:58pm Diane Stadtherr
@Jonathan-Excuse me? He'll dump her as soon as she puts on the pounds? Wow, I hope that if you're married your wife doesn't put up with your crappy attitude. You take your spouse and accept them the way they are, and not on conditions of whether or not they are fat or thin. That's a pretty pathetic thing to say.
October 06, 2011 - 5:33pm Barbara Arnold Bost
What a shock. Thought they'd make it.
October 06, 2011 - 5:30pm Jonathan Smith
Fake relationship doomed from the start. He will dump her as soon as she puts on the pounds. Ali's always been a little chunky.
October 06, 2011 - 4:14pm Anne McGill
If they are miserable, why don't they just breakup?
October 06, 2011 - 3:42pm Sarah Silva
2 weeks ago when she postponed it again I said they would breakup. That is too bad! My choice was Chris from day 1
October 06, 2011 - 2:59pm Becky Belleau
Shoulda picked Chris!!!!!!!! Hahahaha
October 06, 2011 - 2:46pm Aimee Mullen
then break up, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
October 06, 2011 - 2:37pm Taryn Lau
So dumb. All couples fight. For goodness sakes get some real news.