Bachelor Jake: Tenley and I Didn't Have "Sexual" Chemistry
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Bachelor Jake Pavelka is explaining what he meant when he told runner-up Tenley Molzahn that they lacked "physical chemistry" on the March 1 finale. (Tenley, 25, remarked that she was confused by Jake's choice of words.)
"Ok, I'll come clean: Physical and sexual chemistry are the same thing," Jake, 32, said on Jimmy Kimmel Live! Thursday.
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He said that he used the word "physical" instead of "sexual" because he "was trying to take the high road and be nice. I didn't want to crush her because she is such a wonderful person."
For the most part, he and fiancee Vienna Girardi say viewers are pleased they're together.
"It's nice because we weren't sure if we were going to have supporters or haters, but a lot of people have been supportive," Vienna said.
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She did have one hater: When she was recently walking down Rodeo Drive, she says a lady yelled 'Boo!' out of her window. "I was like, 'Pop a tire!'" Vienna told Kimmel.
Why does she think some viewers despise her so much?
"People love to hate, and I have a huge personality, and it's even more amplified on the show," she said.
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Even Jake's family wasn't wild about her after initially meeting.
These days, "I talk to his mom, like, twice a day," Vienna said. "We both call each other."
When Kimmel joked that Tenley talks to Jake's mom three times a day, Vienna cracked: "Well then I am going to have to call her one more time then."
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She said she is ready to root for her man as he makes his Dancing With the Stars debut March 22.
"I will be his biggest cheerleader!" she said.
Is she nervous about all the time he'll be spending with partner Chelsie Hightower? Nah.
"Chelsea could have him on the dance floor," Vienna said, "but he comes home to me!
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260Jake was in this for one reason (CHEAP) and that is what he got I don't even see them making it to the altar. Actually, a church wedding would be a descrase.
No wonder... Tenley is not half as cheap as Jake obviously needs a girl to be... the cheaper the vienner... :-))
I think Jake and Viena are in for the same rude awakening all the other couples get ,when they have to live real life together not fantasy dates and competing for roses.....anybody could fall in love in the settings they create,it's ridiculous,and if they think her personality when she is really comfortable won't come out with those sister-in -laws,well use your imagination ,they won't be the glue as his mom so desperately wants .My main other problem is that she is 23 and even though i was a mature 23 I changed soooooo much going into my late 20's and then now early 30's my perspectives i thought could never change have ,some a 180 that just comes with life and i think they are gonna bite the dust ,not that i am hoping for it I am not ,it's just realistic ...those couples don't only go on amazing and by them called fantasy dates,they don't spend hardly any time with that person ....and if you have gone out on a few fantasy dates and then live with someone whole new ballgame,you DO NOT KNOW SOMEONE TILL YOU LIVE WITH THEM AND I MEAN FOR A WHILE,THERE IS A STRONG REASON THEY HAVE 1 COUPLE OUT OF APPX 9 OR 10 ROUNDS OF BACHELORS AND BACHLORETTES....JUST RIDICULOUS AND GIVES YOUNG WOMEN AN UNREALISTIC VIEW OF WHAT FALLING IN KLOVE IS REALLY LIKE FOR THE RIGHT REASONS AND MAKING IT LAST ,THE SHOW'S BAD STATS OF SUCCESS TELL IT ALL AND i AM WITH tENLY i WOULDN'T WANT TO BE ICKED BY A MAN WHO FIRST OF ALL WAS THE MOST MISLEADING BACHELOR TO THOSE WOMEN OF THEM ALL!HE LED THEM ALL (FINAL 4) AT LEAST! THAT THEY WERE ON THEIR WAY TO A LIFE TOGETHER AND EVEN SAID HE WAS SO TORN AND STILL LOVES TENLY(MINUS THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY)WHATEVER YOU DON'T FALL " IN LOVE WITH 4 WOMEN AT THE SAME TIME AND HE ADMITTED OVER AND OVER HE WAS IN LOVE WITH ALL 4 OF THEM I WOULD NOT WANT TO BE VIENA,AND SEE HOW HE WAS WITH THE FINAL OTHER 3 AND ESPECIALLY gIA AND TENLY AND HE TOLD aLI HE LOVED HER AND TENLY...WHAT A WHACKO.I BET UNLESS SHE GETS PREGNANT THEY WILL NEVER MAKE IT TO THE ALTER UNLESS ABC OFFERS THEM A BOATLOAD OF MONEY AND WE KNOW SHE WILL DIVE AT THAT......STUPID AND AWFUL EXAMPLE OF DATING AND FINDING YOUR LIFE PARTNER
Tenley is annoying and her voice is awful. Jake did not want to be with Minnie Mouse
Tenley is bad in the sack. Even her ex said so
Sorry. By saying "these two", I am talking about Jake and Vienna. Oopsie. Cheers
Hey guys. The best way to make these two "go away" is to stop commenting on all their tabloid stories. The more comments, either negative or positive, help to increase ratings. It's all "made up", as both are under contract to ABC. They do and say what is instructed. It is meant to entertain, not to be truthful. I say we all stop reading and commenting about these two and watch them slowly disappear. Trust me. It works!!! Cheers
I give it 4-6 months before they announce that they aren't together anymore.
If Jake doesn't think that Tenley is hot, he needs glasses. I think she's smokin'.
This is basically his way of saying he wasn't attracted to Tenley. I don't get why he's such a catch. He has the personality of a wet mop.
The guy's an idiot, clearly. Vienna, spiritual? Hahaha. Yeah, I bet her and Jesus are real tight. This is about as believable as Heidi Montag becoming the next Mother Teresa.
This guy's a tool. And as for Vienna the tranny, she looks like she passed out in a tanning bed and never woke up. The girl is BEAT. How old is she? 45?
The more this guy opens his mouth, the bigger the d|ck he is.
Oh puke! That Vienna girl is NASTY! Ewww. But I'm not surprised he chose her. The guy is sooo boring and she's got all kinds of grossness going on for her. Blechh! Please go away.
What do you mean "leave them alone"--get real they both went on a reality t.v show and therefore put themselves out there for public scrutiny. Jake portrayed himself as a nice guy with huge standards and morals. He showed his true colors and chose the tramp! Wow wonder what he is really after. If they have kids wonder what Jake will say to the kids-your mom posed topless and your grandmother was a stripper. Morals my ass. Jake is also a LIAR, he said he wanted something substantial not just physical. I think it is lust and he is very immature. Vienna will learn in time but she is still very young.Ali and Tenley should be thrilled they got away from this SLIME bucket. You deserve to have Vienna, I guess trash attracts trash.
CONGRATULATIONS! Jake & Vienna. What none of the trash talkers understand... It's about them, not us. They made a commitment to one another. It's that simple! Loved the fact we heard they are physically attracted, emotionally & most importantly Spiritually connected. This is important stuff to have in a relationship. God Bless you both and bless your future together.
Why not leave Jake and Vienna alone? He chose the person he wanted to be with, PERIOD! Would you want the rest of America picking your mate? Tently was still way too rapped up in her ex if you ask me, She struck me as way to child-like for a real realtionship. As far as I'm concewrned I wish Jake and Vienna a world of happiness
girls just to let yu know all yu slu.. that like vienna get over it cuz they arent gonna be together forever hes gonna go runnin to tenley and she still has a bf in flordia and god knows what they were doing together and when vienna and jake werent together thats all im sayin i was rooting for tenley cuz she the best girl and vienna was a stripper probaly still is and shes a s...
So Pupple calls Tenley a B.... I totally DISAGREE I believe you are just "Jealous". She is sweet and got treated unfairly she deserves to have a real man not these spineless nobody's that like hooking up with tramps. Tenley is a good person so obviously people the write trash about her are just low class people.
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