Celebs Urge Sandra Bullock to Stay Strong

Letâ??s face facts. Sandra got ripped off. Sandra is literally at the pinnacle, the â??Everestâ?? of her career, winning the most esteemed golden bauble that all of Hollywood would kill or die for. She is on a cloud. She is happy. Winning the Oscar for Best Actress is icing on the biggest, yummiest cake you can fit on a fork. Then, eight days later, her world comes crashing down around her. Like a meteor straight through the heart. Stabbing. Talk about being â??Blind Sided.â?? Instantly her highest-high is met with the lowest-low a human in love has ever had the misfortune of dealing with. Infidelity. And not just regular infidelity (is there such a thing?) But in-your-face-stripper-turned-tattoo-model-turned-freak-show infidelity. Why am I writing this? Isnâ??t this just another movie star marriage run amok? I am writing about this because I have not been able to stop thinking about how incredibly awful this story is. What woman wouldnâ??t choose an honest, loving, FAITHFUL husband, versus what she got. She got the award. She got the prize, yet at the cost of her marriage? And NOT by her choice. â??Sandyâ?? seems like someone I could be friends with. She seems real, and her pain is really real. Honestly, my heart breaks for her. If she were my friend, I would write her a letter. It would sound like this. Dear Sandy, I cannot even wrap my mind around the kind of heart-splitting pain you are going through, and on the public stage of the tabloids must make it seem ten billion times worse. I am not sure how someone recovers from such devastation. But they do, and you will too. Someday, you will be able to hang your head high and resume your life. It wonâ??t be easy, but you can do it. We support you. We support whatever decision you make, even if you decide to return to Jesse. That is your choice. Whatever you decide, I sincerely hope you decide to continue to believe in love. Iâ??m sure that thought is more foreign to you than if I were speaking alien, but itâ??s true. Love will overcome. You are worthy of a loving, trustworthy, honest man. Donâ??t lose sight of that. Donâ??t lose sight of the fact that people do stupid things for stupid reasons, and we may never know the real â??reasonâ?? why. It doesnâ??t matter. What does matter is that the world, your fans, grieve with you. And if we could â??hug it outâ?? and make it all go away, weâ??d do it faster than the flash of a paparazzi camera bulb. Stay strong Sandy. Stay true to yourself. And stay open to finding love again. katie-walters.co Your Blogging Friend Iâ??ll be watching to see how it turns out for her. I can only hope she finds peace somewhere along the way. And soon.

I dated (and trusted) someone who reminds me of this guy. Sandra, you deserve so much better. You will never do it again, my friend. Kudos your way...and remember, if it doesn't kill you, it makes you stronger.

i cannot believe the amount of instant belief for the hidious gossip and no support for the pain and heartache for the family! This horrible scumbag got 30.000 dollars for her story and the money is still rolling in!!!! This smells so badly of an opporrtunity to make money with no morals or values that I cannot believe everyone is not waiting for some hard proof. Sandra and Jesse could very well be victims of a moneyhungery brokeass witch and instead of looking at the type of proof she is using and doubting its authenticity, everyohe is talking as if it is true and puttimg entire family through hell. Quit getting so much entertainment and joy from other peoples very real pain and heartahe. Where is the good in people? Mouths and stories should be on a gag order until we have FACTS to report. What a depressing situation. At the end of the day noone knows anything for sure except Jesse and Sandra.

Well whatever happened or whatever she did or didn't do it's too bad.

Drop that idiot like he is hot. What a waste of your time. Sandy, SEX IS NOT LOVE!!!!! Don't be his fool. Keep on walking and don't look back.

I'd hate to be the one to say it, wait. no i won't hate saying it. Anyway, my guess is that maybe Jesse cheated because Sandra WOULDN'T swing from a pole...at least in the bedroom. Like many of you prudes on here, she would probably only consent to missionary. Oh well. Like someone else said, Sandra's not the first and certainly won't be the last person (not only women, you bitter angry man-hating witches) who is cheated on.

Sandra has to give up demeaning herself by hanging out with trash. Dump the low life jerk.

WTF JSSSIE JAMES

Sandra,I hope you keep in touch with the children who you have helped raise,because they are more important in this discussion about your marriage. they do not understand but you need to think long and hard when you make up your mind about leaving. you deserve someone better,that is for sure. he is not worth crying over,he will do you again the way he did others.you cant take a chance on a broken heart again,so let him go.

Don't let humility bring you down. You are too good for this ho monger. You didn't pose nude, swing on a pole or have your body covered in tatoos. You have way too much class for this loser, let him go and he can die from AIDS not you. We love you and all the movies you have ever been in. I am a big fan of yours and it is very unfortunate you couldn't enjoy the honor of winning an OSCAR. Get rid of the snake, narcossistic pig, if he loved you as much as we all thought he wouldn't of been bedding such a sleeze bag nor anyone else for that matter. You go girl. Be better than ever.Hold your head high and you will be bigger than you ever imagined. Jesse will lose everything over this.