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Jenny McCarthy is tired of being Singled Out.

The 39-year-old Love, Lust & Faking It author tells Access Hollywood she's been unlucky in love because "it's tough to find a man's man" in Hollywood.

"Out here, they want to borrow my makeup and concealer," she explains. "I want to bring a little bit of importing into my life and look for guys outside of L.A."

McCarthy's former loves include Jim Carrey, Jason Toohey and John Asher (with whom she has a 9-year-old son, Evan). This time around, the Illinois native says she's putting a premium on intellectual compatibility.

"I don't care if they have a big nose. I don't care if they're bald," McCarthy says. "[I just want someone who's] really sweet and who's a perfect reflection of who I am now."

One other crucial condition? "They have to have a job," the former Playboy model says. "I'd like them to at least be able to buy dinners and stuff like that. That is important."

This isn't the first time McCarthy has considered dating outside her social circle: In April, she told Ryan Seacrest she would consider romancing "chubby, hairy, short or bald" men.