Melissa and Tammy Etheridge Split
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After nearly nine years together, Melissa and Tammy Etheridge are done.
"Melissa and Tammy Etheridge are saddened to announce that they are now separated," a rep for the singer tells UsMagazine.com.
"We ask for consideration and respect for our family as we go through this difficult period," the duo note in a statement.
Singer Melissa, 48, and actress Tammy (whose former name was Tammy Lynn Michaels), 35, exchanged marital vows in Malibu, Calif. in September 2003.
Using an anonymous sperm donor, Tammy gave birth to their twins -- son Miller and daughter Rose -- in October 2006. Melissa survived a bout with breast cancer that began in 2004.
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Grammy-winner Etheridge has two older children (Bailey, 13, and Beckett, 11) with former partner Julie Cypher. Their father is longtime friend David Crosby of Crosby, Stills and Nash.
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In an interview with About.com, Tammy gushed about her girlfriend's surprise proposal:
"I was like life-stoppingly shocked. We cried! We sobbed...she had the ring made and everything. She picked out the diamond. She's like one of those romantics that you watch on TV."















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78look at all this people, hiding behind "god"...
I was sad to hear they broke up. It's hard enuf to keep your rlshp together and raise your kids when you both are there. Most rock star types don't seem cut out for the day-to-day family life routine or sacrifices it demands.
SO SHOCKED! NOT. Her, Rosie O'Donnel - all those who got 'married' and of course don't have to go through the normal divorce as any normal married couple but is definintely shows more why Prop 8 passed & should stick!
If a child has 2 moms and dads -- s/he will never be related to both of them. Interesting, isn't it?
There are different types of love: erotic love (romance) and friendship love (non-sexual) to name a few. I believe gay relationships are nothing more than friendships or roommates. It's wrong, it's taboo, and it's downright sickening. Picture ppl right now -- 2 men or 2 women screwing each other. It's impossible. Their perverted and twisted sex acts go against the definition of sexual intercourse. Gay sex is nothiong more than lustful pathetic behavior. A man and a woman can naturally conceive - you know A+B=C. Two gays or lesbians have to get outside help. Their unions are not and will never be normal or natural.
April 16, 2010 - 6:11am thinkaboutit: I AGREE WITH YOU.
Responding to jlo: Religion does not bring about war. PEOPLE bring about war. We are God's children and all children need direction and strucure.
Jesus H Christ, leave God out of this! He could give a rats a** if two people of the same sex love each other and want to be with them. The world would be such a better place with no organized religion, just believe what you feel in your heart, you don't need a structure to go to, religion has only brought about many wars.
melissa etheridge preyed on a much younger girl and in my book she is a pervert. that girls parents didn't even care they were on oprah all happy about it. what a gross old dyke.
if homosexuality was 'natuaral', then children could be made out of such relationships 'natuarally'. why need some other man or woman's help to do so...
This woman 'married' her mother?
It is sad that woman can't lick a twat in peace. or that she can't grab a gun, shoot her children, or pay some man 300 dollars to scrape her uterus without some one judging her. I guess it is scary once someone comes to her senses and decides to leave a relationship and (horror) want to have sex and a real relationship with someone who didn't buy their penis in a sex toy shop.
WHO THE HELL ISN'T GAY IN HOLLYWOOD THEY HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO THAN SLEEP WITH SAME SEX HOW SICK !
WHAT THE HELL DOES GOD HAVE TO DO WITH ANYTHING WACK PEOPLE IT'S WRONG BEING GAY AND THAT'S ALL THERE'S TO IT WE HAVE A MAN FOR A REASON AND A WOMAN FOR A REASON !
well to all of you who condone homosexuality and think so little of God or refuse to aknowledge his existance at all, let me know what side you end up on the day that you die...then all your debating will be answered...Jesus lives , he died for your sins and wants to be in your life...all you have to do is accept Him end of story
God made some people gay. You see little kids who are gay or who feel they are living in the wrong body. It's not something at that age they can learn especially because their parents aren't ever too thrilled. So did God make a mistake? I don't think so. But to each his own. In any case two people who loved and cared about each other are now divorced from one another and that always hurts and is sad.
Praise God! If I'm not mistaken there are innocent children in all this. Did it take a man to father the children? Or did some miracle happen that two women was able to get together and do it. Well, If it wasn't for scientific alternatives, the human race would die out for gay couples. But Praise be to God for the man and woman relationship. Does the children have the opportunity to visit their fathers, and do they know that it took a male sperm to fertilize the mothers eggs and that they are normal human beings and not test tube experiments? Can you imagine the difficulty these children will have in life thinking they have two mothers?? It's simply beautiful, the male and female relationship!!!
REBECCA, I don't know what you are talking about. I can't quote the bible, I am sorry. I unfortunately have never read it. I own one and have always had good intentions, but have honestly never made enough of an effort to read it. However, I do go to Sunday mass and hear the gospel. I was simply saying that the bible is a way to learn about God. We are getting way off track here. It always happens when the discussion turns to God. I will say this. "To say that one believes in God is very different from saying that one loves God; for even the devil believes in God. I don't want to argue about God. Even you believe or you do not. I happen to believe; therefore I must also believe in certain values. Again, I will say that I am not judgemental in anyway. I think all people are equal. Being gay does not make a person any less or more than anyone else in God's eyes and should not in mankind's eyes. I am just saying that same sex unions are wrong. So is stealing, jealousy, judging others, abortion, etc. What is wrong with saying that somethings is wrong. We all do wrong things all the time. But turning to God for guidance and direction in our lives, helps us to stay on the straight and narrow. 2010 is a time when the devil is snatching as many souls as he can. Now, that may sound warped. We all will die one day Rebecca. None of us can escape death. Look at life, from beginning to end. We start out in diapers and oftenn end up in diapers. Let us not be fooled by thinking there is not a God. Open up your heart and mind to Jesus and see what happens. Also, Rebecca you are trying to complicate things. I don't have to be a scholar to trust in God. I only have to open my heart up to him. The Lord whats us to come to him as children seeking advice. I am no theologian; I am just someone trying to get by in this world. Have a good day.
Lorraine, I am not questioning your faith but you are still not responding to the questions as to the contradictory messages in the Bible. Those such as slavery, men having to wear beards, not eating shellfish,selling ones daughter to pay a debt killing woman who have been raped or forcing them to marry their rapists, etc, etc, etc. Why not? Because you choose what parts of the Bible you will live by and which you will not. That is being a hypocrite and that is what turns people off of "Christians". You can't say that you have compassion for everyone and they tack on a "However" to that. The "However" cancels out any compassion and leaves you sitting in judgment and that is wrong according to the Bible. I guess that is another part of it that you do not choose to follow. Do you not see any of this? How convenient.
Responding to SAME OLD TUNE: Please define religious fanaticism because that I am not. I simply believe in God, why do you call that being a fanatic? To me, a fanatic is someone who does not have a balance in his/her life with regard to religion. Believing in God does not make one a religious fanatic. On the contrary, I could do a lot better in the prayer department. Yes, it is the same old tune. There will always be those that believe and those that do not. "For those that believe in God, no explanation is necessary; and for those that do not, no explanation will be sufficient". I am not accustomed to arguing about the Lord, I don't think God would want that. But, I do believe in praying for others. God does answer prayers. Just because you people who call Christians Bible Thumpers and fanatics, choose otherwise; that does not make it true that there is not a God. I said to you before, take the God challenge. Find a quiet place and ask God to come in to your life, but ask from the heart and not just the lips. All you non-believers, I dare you to try this. You will not, because the devil doesn't want you to. The devil is loving the fact that God is removed from society. Man has forgotten that the Lord died on the cross for all mankind. Think about this. Save the fanatic label for someone else.