Ricky Martin: Yes, I'm Gay
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Ricky Martin is opening up about his sexuality.
"I am proud to say that I am a fortunate homosexual man," the singer, 38, posted on his Web site Monday afternoon. "I am very blessed to be who I am."
Martin says his twin boys, Matteo and Valentino -- whom he welcomed via surrogate in August 2008 -- inspired him to speak out.
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"This is just what I need, especially now that I am the father of two beautiful boys that are so full of light and who, with their outlook, teach me new things every day. To keep living as I did up until today would be to indirectly diminish the glow that my kids where [sic] born with," he writes.
Martin -- who has dodged questions about his sexuality in the past -- continues, "These years in silence and reflection made me stronger and reminded me that acceptance has to come from within and that this kind of truth gives me the power to conquer emotions I didn't even know existed."
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He says he's relieved after making the announcement.
"The word 'happiness' takes on a new meaning for me as of today. It has been a very intense process," he writes. "Every word that I write in this letter is born out of love, acceptance, detachment and real contentment. Writing this is a solid step towards my inner peace and vital part of my evolution."
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147ok so i'm sorry you guys for the late reply on this thread but i just got so frustrated by both arguments (gay and straight people's arguments) you guys need to understand something from a neutral point of view: 1) when gays compare with the animal kingdom, they are strictly referring to the fact that it is "part" of nature, it is not an anomaly, what is "normal" is defined by our societies not by God (if there is one) or by nature. 2) homosexuals understand that they cannot reproduce, but some heterosexuals can't either, shouldn't society also condemn them for not reproducing? what about kissing, blowjobs, threesomes, fingering, safe-sex; just by basing on your arguments, shouldn't all these acts be completely prohibited since the DO NOT contribute to sexual reproduction. This point is only based on the argument that homosexuals cannot reproduce. 3) homosexuality cannot be chosen, it is not an option however a lot of people have "chosen" to live a straight life, but believe me i know some of my friends have tried that and it really hurt them. So as my third point, IT IS NOT A CHOICE, however SOME not ALL people have the capability to deviate away from it however not fully forget it. 4) yes it is true that being raised by a gay couple could be weird for the children, BUT it is because society makes it weird, because we are raised on the idea of a mom and dad. You guys all failed to mention (straight arguments and gay arguments) what is the role of a mom and dad? What is a role of a mom? can it be fulfilled by a man? or vice versa? if we prosecute gay men or gay women because they fail to give a male model or a female model for their offspring shouldn't we also prosecute single mothers? single fathers? or maybe even stay-home dads? or workaholic mothers? after all our society says "A DAD WORKS, A MOM COOKS" then shouldn't we kick out all the women that work outside of their homes? This is based on the argument that homosexuals can't be good parents. The only solution here, is to change society and its way of thinking. Stop thinking that the world is going to end because of homosexuality, it's already going to end with global warming and it'll have a higher probability of ending from an alien invasion than homosexuality. Stop thinking the traditional way of man-woman upbringing because a lot of people already don't have that. If you don't like homosexuality then don't be around it, no one's asking you for your criticism. Critiquing is fine (i hope u guys can tell the difference) thank you :)
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Go do some research why mothers and fathers are important in a child's life. You will learn alot. I don't think ppl were meant to have kids from some strangers' egg/sperm or some family arrangements where a sibling gets involved to help out. Children should be born from natural arrangements. That's why when a man and woman hook up, guess what happens! A baby is born. That baby has the DNA from both parents. The baby is related to both parents. The baby knows its real parents. The baby has a mother and father. DUH! Stop being stupid. How do you think you came into this world? From a mother and a father, of course. Come back w/your argument when 2 gays can reproduce TOGETHER. Going thru a procedure is not reproduction b/c you're not sleeping w/ your partner to create a human life. You're denying a potential human being the chance to be born the proper way. And remember: Mothers and Fathers Create Sons & Daughters. There are not shortcuts. Children need a mom and a dad. Same-gender parenting should be off-limits. It's happening but I don't approve of it. That's my opinion and if you can't handle it -- oh well! My thoughts don't make me hateful either. I don't hate anyone. Disagreements / differences of opinion do not equate to hate. I mind my own business in the real world. But I'm entitled to my own opinion here b/c there's a comment section. I'm done. This is my last comment. Will not be replying to anything else. You're just being stubborn and inflexible. You can learn much by diverse viewpoints.
Anonymouse said that RM "chooses" to live a homosexual life. If he or gays are born that way, why'd you use the word "choose"? Because it's a choice in this context. If it's not, quit using the word "choose". That's it. I'm not replying anymore. A difference of opinion doesn't make one negative. There's just a bunch of unhappy "wish they were straight" ppl here.
No, there's something wrong with YOU.
@starlightstarbright you're joking right? You really think people choose to be gay? You are sad. Being gay is like being born with blonde hair or blue eyes. It is what it is. People do not choose to be gay. It is still a difficult life to lead because of all the hate - I highly doubt a 16 year old kid who is gay chooses to be gay - you know how many kids are beaten and abused because they are gay? All the hate crimes? I took care of one young man who almost died because he was jumped for being gay. He is currently in medical school. There is something wrong with YOU.
good for you Ricky - I'm sorry we live in a world where this is a big deal to some. Ignore the haters. What goes around comes around and some day they will get theirs. Anyone with that much pent up hate and self rightousness is pathetic.
The keyword is "choose". I think we have an answer to homosexuality.
Anonymouse -- You said that [homosexuals] "choose to live a homosexual life." So that makes homosexuality a CHOICE, doesn't it? If ppl were truly born this way, it wouldn't be a choice. Interesting, you say you're not gay but mention "partner". Gays usually refer to their significant other as their partner. I bet you are gay/bi. Others usually say boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband, etc. I've never heard of a heterosexual couple use the word "partner" to describe their special someone. INTERESTING... Also, stop spouting "hate monger". A different opinion doesn't mean one hates anybody. So uncloud your foggy mind so you can think (pardon the pun) straight.
Anonymouse -- why don't YOU get an education and stop acting so self-righeous and superior. Sorry, gay unions are not normal. You're delusional. That's the problem. If these unions are so normal, why can't you have sex with your partner to conceive a child? You ALWAYS have to get outside help. And the poor sperm in your body is unused. You could've met a woman and had a normal relationship like the rest of the population, which is mostly straight. I only accept same-gender relationships as friends. Sorry, but once you cross that boundary to accept a same-gender lover, that is just gross, in my opinion. And don't compare youself to an infertile couple who has to get outside help. There is no comparison. Not being able to have children for medical reasons is not the same as not being able to have children period becuase the functionality doesn't exist to make it happen. Kinda weird -- you probably came from a man/woman (mother/father) but you choose another route. Go find out why you have an aversion to woman. You could've chosen the correct way and had a normal family. Why raise someone else's kid when clearly if you hooked up in the proper arrangment, you could've had your own. Use some logic for a change.
Dear Ricky, I say live in happiness, forget what all the others say, you have done a wonderful thing having 2 sons, I am a step mom of 2 gay men and they are the most loving and wonderful human being on this earth!!!!! Yes there are hate mongers out there, but they are just those that are not happy unless they can make others miserable. Ricky never be ashamed of who you are, your life is your own and no one walks, talks, or breaths for you. Continue with your beautiful music, and show your sons as they grow, love compassion and understanding, for they will need it in a world which has become so negative. Laugh often, love always, speak kindly to all.
There are no intelligent comments here because the comment box is f***ed up and deletes messages if you click outside then back inside the text box.
Starlight: You obviously didn't read anything Anonymous said... Homosexuals, male or female, don't 'want to be straight'. Get an education regarding scientific research out there on the development and biology of homosexuals before you start spouting off about what's natural and what's not. Humans can think, yes, and they can feel. And you telling someone that what they feel is right for them is wrong or 'disgusting' is cruel and dehumanizing. And Anon re: 'bisexual porn addicts'... who said anything about that? This is about people, like Ricky Martin, who choose to live a homosexual life. They have every right to. But no marriage or relationship is based solely on sex - it's about love and respect and companionship. Stop thinking about it in just that one aspect. I'm not gay, I have a very loving partner, but I don't feel the homosexual lifestyle threatens my lifestyle or belief system... if being that way makes them happy, who are we to say they don't have the same rights as I do to love? Just live and let love people... or, if you feel that you need to battle a cause, pick a different one - this one just makes you look hateful.
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TRicky tell me something I don't already know. I'm a 38 yr old mother of 4 from Nowhere Indiana and I knew you were gay since .....forever. Live and let live and get on with your life. I don't care what your sexual preference is as long as your a decedent productive human being. It's time to get over labeling people by who is laying next to them in bed.
Ricky tell me something I don't already know. I'm a 38 yr old mother of 4 from Nowhere Indiana and I knew you were gay since .....forever. Live and let live and get on with your life. I don't care what your sexual preference is as long as your a decedent productive human being. It's time to get over labeling people by who is laying next to them in bed.
You're the hate mongor! Hypocrite. Why do you have such a hatred of heterosexuality? Why are you so against heterosexuality? Umm, you should appreciate the orientation b/c if your parents didn't hook up, umm, you would not be here. HELLO??? Wake up smarty pants. Once again you continue to compare youreself to a lower level low life creature that rubs anything. Humans THINK! Animals do NOT. So according to your argument, since animals do it, then it's ok for you to do it so you choose the wrong way. Still can't create a child w/your partner w/o outside help! You have too much time on your hands. Plz go back to your other job and grow up. And stop calling me a hater. I don't hate anyone. Just because my opinion is different or one you don't agree with doesn't make me a hater -- such an overused and wrongly used word. If you're so happy being gay what's with the bitterness? Huh? Because you wish you were straight, that's why! I'm done and will not read anything else. Log off US mag and spend time with your "family". That's what you need to do so just leave here and get a life.
Shut up loser.
Anonymous you're the real crackpot. Glad I was never raised by 2 men. Starlight's post was very intelligently written. Your logic is OFF. Want your own son that comes from the DNA in your body? Find a woman! But you chose not to. Pathetic.
Anonymous you are the moron. Bisexual porn addicts think it's all about sex. SO SHUT UP.