The former Beverly Hills, 90210 star met McDermott in August 2005 on the set of their TV movie Mind Over Murder. Three weeks later, he left his wife of 12 years, Mary Jo Eustace (who just welcomed their second child and has since written a tell-all called The Other Woman). "I have the perfect man, and that's all that matters," Spelling, who now stars on a reality show with her hubby and two kids, said before their wedding less than a year later.