Ex Bachelorette: Chris Handled Rejection "Like a Man"

Entertainment August 3, 2010 AT 5:57PM
Ex Bachelorette: Chris Handled Rejection "Like a Man" Credit: Chelsea Lauren/WireImage.com; ABC/CRAIG SJODIN; ABC/BOB D'AMICO

He may not have won Ali Fedotowsky's heart on Monday's Bachelorette finale, but runner-up Chris Lambton impressed at least one woman: former Bachelorette DeAnna Pappas.

"Women all over the country are going to be swooning over him! He's a stand up guy, he's good looking and he has a good heart," Pappas -- who split from fiance Jesse Csincsak, whom she found on Season 4, in November 2008 -- tells UsMagazine.com.

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"The fact that he cares so much about his mother -- even though she passed away -- that he's so open to talk about her and he gave up his job to go home and help take care of her, that says so much about him as a person," she continues. "He's going to be a wonderful husband, a loving man and he's already a very thoughtful and caring person."

And though Fedotowsky, 25, broke things off with Lambton before their final date when she told him she was in love with Roberto Martinez, Pappas says the 33-year-old landscaper handled the rejection with the "utmost class."

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"To be so far into the show and have so many feelings and emotions -- and to have met her family -- I thought he handled it like a man," Pappas, 28, tells Us.

But even though Lambton may have left Bora Bora heartbroken, Pappas says that Fedotowsky's attraction to Martinez, a 26-year-old insurance agent, had been evident since day one.

"It's been clear that her and Roberto have that romantic chemistry that's needed in a  relationship. They really, really like each other," Pappas says. "He's the only guy that she actually looks into his eyes; she actually looks into his eyes when she's kissing him."

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So does Pappas have any words of wisdom for the newly engaged couple, who celebrated the show's finale by hitting up a wrap party in Hollywood on Monday night?

"My only advice is to just love each other genuinely, take every day as it comes and really try to get out of Hollywood and settle into normal life," Pappas advises. "I've heard rumors that they've been offered Dancing With The Stars, and my advice is to build the ground before you dive in. It's going to be hard."

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  • August 04, 2010 - 2:44pm Jeanie

    Deanna gets to voice her opinion because she was on the show and knows what they are going through. She knows from her own mistakes what will help a relationship work after the show.

  • August 04, 2010 - 2:19pm Darlene

    Yes, I agree why are they still asking Deanna her opinion? Is she still on contract. Enough of Deanna already. I think her and annoying Jake should hook up. Good bye Deanna and Jake you had your 15 min of fame, it's over.

  • August 04, 2010 - 2:18pm Joy

    I liked both Roberto and Chris. Ali had a tough choice between the two. Either way, she would have done well. It's about time a Bachelor/Bachelorette ends this way. So happy for them, I hope they have everlasting love. I hope chris will find it sometime too. Any woman would be lucky to have such a nice, well rounded guy to take home to mom.

  • August 04, 2010 - 1:56pm Paula

    cont......Oh and to be jealous of!!

  • August 04, 2010 - 1:54pm Paula

    Chris is just about the "classiest" man that's been on any of those shows. I'm thrilled that Ali didn't pick him because he's WAY TOO GOOD FOR HER and he'd be STUCK WITH HER FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE!!!! She's a fake!! She didn't make herself look too bad on this season because there were no other women around for her to bully and pick on!!

  • August 04, 2010 - 1:49pm vet

    Like a Man?? Really? How insulting to him... what a dip...

  • August 04, 2010 - 1:38pm Melissa

    US Weekly, PLEASE stop asking this bobble head Deanna for her opinion. Of all the people? She is ANNOYING and no one cares what she thinks! Please go back from whence you came. Go sell some houses or something. Be gone!

  • August 04, 2010 - 1:33pm Eudora

    Actually it would be "her and Is," but that looks confusing in print.

  • August 04, 2010 - 1:30pm Eudora

    Thank you gutsygirl! Such a relief to see someone here speaking English. I get so distracted by the bad grammar on the show!! I noticed that Roberto used "I" and "me" correctly! If I hear "her and I's relationship" from someone one more time I may have to give up this guilty pleasure.

  • August 04, 2010 - 11:08am Anna

    "Pappas giving her advice huh"!! Yes Chris did handle it with grace and was very much a gentlemen. Ali as well was sincere to her feeling snad she did the right hting by letting him go before there date.

  • August 04, 2010 - 10:42am Mesh

    DeAnna is such an expert on love she cant even keep her own man? She needs to go find her own man and let Ali worry about herself!

  • August 04, 2010 - 10:41am Skye

    Seriously, I don't get the fascination with DeAnna. Her 15 minutes were up long ago. Enough already.

  • August 04, 2010 - 10:14am michigangal

    You can't blame DeAnna for her comments when US weekly is the one who thinks she is some kind of expert on love and the Bachelorette.

  • August 04, 2010 - 9:11am ashlee

    ok...I get it now............It's US WEEKLY who keeps this stupid chick around.........QUIT ASKING DeANNA STUPID PAPPA FOR HER 2 CENTS. ENOUGH OF HER!

  • August 04, 2010 - 9:10am ashlee

    Why doesn't this DeAnna chick hook up with Chris and get the hell outta my face. WHY is she always asked about this dam show??????.... I don't care about her two cents!

  • August 04, 2010 - 8:58am MK

    Why is DeAnna Pappas mentionned in every article???Who is she???Why do we care.She had her turn at love annd it didnt work so move on...THANKS

  • August 04, 2010 - 7:02am michelle

    and we care what DeAnna Pappas thinks because....why?

  • August 04, 2010 - 7:02am michelle

    And we care what DeAnna Pappas thinks because....?

  • August 04, 2010 - 6:53am jess

    OMFG DEANNA NEEDS TO GO AWAY! ITS NOT HER FRIGGIN SHOW ANYMORE!

  • August 04, 2010 - 4:31am ShehasaPoint

    The SMARTEST thing this woman has ever said "Get out of Hollywood". She is right about that. Ryan & Trista did and they're doing just fine.

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