im in love with a man who is 54. im 33. he is a goodlooking,funny caring guy. he doesnt look his age ,looks ten years younger.we have been friends for a couple of years. he started flirting with me and told me he had fancied me for ages. so it started with a kiss. he has been with his girlfriend for 30 years. they never married and he never had kids with her. i know he loves her.but he is not happy. he is not a rich man. i feel bad that i see him behind her back, and so does he. but now he says he has started to fall in love with me too. we have tried to finish it several times but even try just to be friends again but it never works.we want each other toomuch. she knows he likes meandthey argue about it all the time. then we try and end it but we are like magnets. i dont know what to do. isuppose he is scared to leave her after all those years. he says if we are to be together we will have to move away. which isnt a problem as both our families live in different countries. i cant imagine life with out him. what do we do?




