Oh my god, STOP DISCUSSING RACE!!!!

Leave them alone, they are happy, they love each other, they get along, they have similar personalities and interests. This is NOT a freaking black-and-white issue, so stop turning it into one constantly, my goodness!!!

We are in the year 2009, HELLOOOOOO. Wake up and smell the biracial coffee.

This is a multiracial world, and if you cant deal with it and accept it and love people for the "content of their character" rather than discussing the superficial like the color of their skin, you are naive, and you need to grow up.

I am a white woman engaged to a white man and have many friends who are african american wonderful people. I dont look at someone's race, that is the dumbest and most ignorant thing Ive ever heard. Wake up, people. Live and let live! There is no other way. All people want is to be treated with respect.

Leave them alone and live your lives! Do a nice thing for someone, and for your community, and stop hating on people! Goodbye!

Shadowyjuan Says: Has there EVER been a case where the ex-boyfriend(?) gave away the bride...in the history of marriage???

Yep my ex-boyfriend walked me down the aisle at my wedding.

Good-luck Hank & Kendra. I'm happy for you guys.

I really don't care who anyone marries, but I find it quite funny that a black man can marry a woman perceived by most to be a "ho" and it's fine and dandy as long as she's white. I don't see any black "hoes" getting proposals from anyone...especially athletes...just an observation.

i think that all you hating on this should just shut the hell up!!!!! i dont see what the big damn deal is with mixed relationships..im a white women with a native american soo im gunna wish kendra the best of luck whether its a black white brown yellow or whatever color she chooses to be with!!

I had to comment here. Hank is Biracial and does owe any allegiances to the 'Black Race', 'Black, Inc', or the black political intelligentsia. His mother is white, and like any good man he simply wanted a reflection of his mother in a mate. Have any of you challenged your own thought process to determine why exactly you feel he MUST be called and classified as black, and do you know that your basis for doing so is rooted in our white supremacist, slave holding past (in the form of the ridiculous, unscientific, and unprovable 'one-drop rule'. Black people also unfortunately use this rationale as well)? Don't be confused by Obama's very vocal proclamation of a 'black' identity and think that ALL Multiracial believe in self-denial. To let you in on something amongst Multiracial people, SOME choose a single-race identity while others are increasingly choosing to identify with exactly who they are, as MULTIRACIAL. I fall into the latter category, and according to the 2000 Census, around 9 MILLION others like me do as well. This number is increasing and will grow. Understand that there is a split amongst our community as to whom identifies as what (some as mono-racial, some as Multiracial). Black people, you do not own nor can you speak for Hank. He does not owe you his love and attention. Get over it, he's not one of yours. Thanks. Great couple by the way :-).

OK.What is all the drama about. So she looks up to Hef, who else does she have, she is marrying a black guy,who cares. I am a big fan of the show. I love to watch the rich be spoiled. I am also white, and also married to a white man. But in this day and time why do people really care who someone marries. Is it because she was Hef's "girlfriend"? So what. Kendra, I am very excited for you. I wish you the best in all you do. I just wish I was so lucky to get a break like you did. And most of these people talking are either jelous or just plain stupid. People let Kendra marry whomever she wants. Good luck to all of and best wishes.

I am Black woman. I have never heard of this guy before. I just heard on the radio that she was engaged to him and that he is Black, so I looked it up. TRUST ME. I AM NOT JEALOUS. You guys always want to insist that we are jealous. I have NO reason to be jealous of this skanky, stank, blonde chick with too much plastic surgery.
Why are we the bad guys because we would like to see our Black men with Black women? Why aren't we considered proud people who love themselves and their own kind? This guy's an idiot. Someone else stated it perfectly: You don't bring home a ho and make her a housewife.
Honest men will tell you there are three types of women: the skank they just bang, the one they only date-won't marry, and the women they marry.
It's a shame that he believes after 9 months that she's the latter.
I personally wouldn't touch him after he's been with that! I know the so-called brother can do better that that. He just doesn't want to. He want's his nasty, blonde, blue-eyed 'itch. He deserves what he gets because his standards are obviously very low when it comes to selecting a good woman. I wonder who his female role models were growing up. Surely, they weren't classy Black women.

Why don't they just get hitched on Jerry Springer...since this all sounds like the perfect forum for them. Hef is like her father??? Call me Rip Van Winkle because I must have been asleep for the last two decades and missed how incest became socially acceptable!

This dude must have been tackled one time too many! Bro, you DON'T turn a ho into a housewife...EVER! Has there EVER been a case where the ex-boyfriend(?) gave away the bride...in the history of marriage???
Having your wedding at the Playboy mansion is like letting R. Kelly chaperon the girl scouts...no good can come of it!

This guy must be a severe mental case because I just can't believe he wasn't met with a chorus of WTF's when he told the guys in the locker room who he was marrying...and where! Then again, this is the same team that was caught with a boatload of skanks last year, so...!

It's unfortunate that a certain segment of our population actually finds people like this "entertaining". I will NEVER be thought of as a saint of any kind, but I think this is frighteningly disgusting...and if you knew me, that's saying something! I watched the 'Two Girls, One Cup' video while eating my dinner, several times! But this just makes me want to projectile vomit!

Yes!!!! 2:56 we all know what you are! You are a blatant ignorant racist who has no business talking about anything that you do not know about "I cant stand to see these type of relationship" Geez...have you been in an interacial relationship? Or even a meaningful one? Why do i think NOT?!!! That is why you are jealous!!!! heheheh...You are what is wrong wih this nation. You are exactly what is holding this nation back from its full potential...your ignorance.Go get yourself educated then you wont dwell on color so much! You will be too busy having an awesome career to linger on things that dont really matter (like the race of somebody)or who they are getting married to.By the way are you married? I dont think so!!!!! Is that why you are so bitter?

I like Kendra she's cool but I know black girls are gonna b hatting on her because she took one of theirs.
Even though we all know that can't be true since most black girls are lesbians or don't believe in marriage unless their parents weren't divorced or they were born rich.

Don't hate on the white girl because she knows how to tie a man down then have kids.

I'm not white I just speak what I see....

2:08 you are a jealous b**tch. get off the soapbox. she just likes to have fun.It doesnt matter what color they are or what color they "act" like give me a break it's 2008.

I also find it disturbing that Hef is now being described as "like a father"...they were having sex together, and she has always been described as one of his "girlfriends". I'm sure Hef really loved hearing that.

I have no problem with the fact the she's marrying someone who is of a different race...I do have a problem with white women (or anyone, including children) trying to "act" black, though. We should all be proud of our own race and roots, and not try to copy other races because of present "fads" and trends.

The episodes where she got a "grill" and made such a big deal about maybe leaving it was disturbing...and then the looks on the other girls faces, when she popped it in, said it all. I've always cringed when watching her on the show. She's vulgar, uncouth, and although she's pretty, she totally lacks class. We saw her mother and grandmother on the show, and so we know that they aren't like that, therefore, you can't blame her upbringing on her lack of intelligence, and socially unacceptable behavior.

I had to laugh when her fiance said that they both like to hang around in their sweats at home, and aren't party people...that's not what it looks like on the show...she appears to LOVE parties, and partying, is an exhibitionist, and loud. She needs to be the center of attention. She everything BUT ladylike.

My prediction...this marriage won't last. She's going to become tired of staying home all of the time, and he's going to become tired of being embarrassed with her base, vulgar behavior...especially out in public. Yep...it should be interesting.

I am in a mixed race relationship and think that it is the best thing that ever happened to me because i refused to be trifling and judge people by their color but by their persona. There are so many haters out there but at the end of the day.... i am responsible for my own happiness and not anybody else out there. So i went for the one person that has made me happier than any other....and he happens to be another race.
The sooner ignorant people realise that the trick to happiness is having "No Bias" then maybe the divorce rate in this country may come down. And until then.... i will still be happily married while you haters will be filling up divorce lawyers pockets!!!!

Brie my thoughts exactly. Hef like her dad? Wasn't she considered his girlfriend? Where I'm from you don't sleep with your dad. Or parade around nude in front of him.

God people stop the hate and the ignorance, from all sides and from every side! Stop the gross generalizations on groups of people, and knock off the ignorant hatreds, please! People should be judged by the content of their character, and no one can be judged by such generalized group stereotypes! Why does talking about celebrities have to become talking S. about race or gender or whatever??? It's really pathetic to read this crap you all are writing.