I don't fcking CARE if he is or not! I hate him, and he can just rot under his goddamn christmas tree.

Screw Patrick! He was mean.

FAEN TA DEG, LOSER.

It was said he just enjoyed hot dating with a black girl on interracialsingleonline.com so man fans show so much interesting to him there? Nice to enjoy what really it happened...

I don't think that patrick dempsey wanted what he said to be blown up. I don't think he is being a jerk just because what he was asked was blown out of proportion or the fact that it is his baby boys first christmas eve let alone christmas in a whole. Maybe you guys shouldn't judge celebs so much untill you know their position or have meet them. Think before you make your little comments.

What a a**hole. Why does he have to announce it? Stupid Jerk.

Are you all seriously pissed off that he's not showing up to Katherine's wedding. I think it's a pretty logical reason why he wouldn't want to go. Family come first. And I doubt he announced this to the world because he's a d*ck. First of all, US magazine is running the story, which probably means they asked him point blank if he was going. What did you want him to say, "none of your business"? They would've found out anyway.

talk about making a mountain over a mole hill.

Didn'te realize what a d*k he was until Grey's Anatomy. Why would anybody want him at their wedding?

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LOL!! hahaha Funny

It’s cool dude. You don’t have to go to her wedding. But what’s not cool is maybe announcing the fact that you’re not attending the happiest day of Katie’s life to the entire world. Just a thought.

Everyone in here writing raciest remarks and talking bad about people with disabilities need to be ashamed of your self!! You people are the reason why I quit bogging here!! OBVIOUSLY your parents didn't beat you enough when you were children or for that matter now. I hope you all do realize that karma is a b!tch and I hope it comes back to you (sooner rather than later). You OBVIOUSLY don't understand the grief and heartache a family goes through when you have a person with a disability. Maybe I should say it this way for all you "children" saying such horrible things: Santa will not be visiting your house this year or ever.

Patrick Dempsey should go to Katherine Heigl's wedding, but if he really wants to spend time with his family & kids, then I support his decision one way or the other!

PS Screw the person who said a very nasty remarks about blacks, jews, down syndrome kids, etc.

he probably wasnt even invited just like he and ellen pompeo weren't invited to Kate Walshes.

CHANTAL YOU ARE A STUPID NIG*ER AREN'T YOU?

Family is important. I wonder if he spanks his kids the way that My dad spanks me

I like how they are trying to make it sound like some big scandal, or there is like some drama...Of COURSE family is first, excpecially around the holidays...Its not like they hate eachother or something. C'mon...I am sure Katherine totally gets it. NON-STORY.

Heigl mentioned, many times, that she knew not everyone can attend her wedding since she set it around the holiday season. I think he is trying to cover himself anyways since Kate Walsh didn't even invite him to her wedding. At least Heigl invited Patrick lol.