Many people care this very much. They are discussing this on the forum of interracial dating site called interracialromancing.com. Many people joined the discussion and debate there.
Thursday February 14, 2008

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Gisele Bundchen has been seen with ex Leonardo DiCaprio's mom.
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I see no problem with it. They are all adults. It is very possible to become real friends with the parents of others, so why is it hard to buy?
If your current partner has an issue, it probably stems from insecurity. I'd rather be friends with someone than deal with that.
3.02: oh, you can't understand what i'm sayin??? Oh welll, isn't that too bad. I can't always understand everything you say either...it's just how life goes...
Chantal,
Who the heck lit the fuse on your tampon string?????
Chantal
I can't even understand your post to respond.
Is english even your first language?
CHANTAL,
I think you forgot your crazy pill today sweetheart. I never heard of anyone getting stressed out over survey polls. LMAO, that is retarded.
Chantal you sound like an idiot!
oh and ps 1.13 Paige: my ex is though, so it would matter for HIM according to your RULES...
1.12. oh no, it is that you have all these rules here..lol..also like eg, don't call your date for 3 days after you meet (for the guy) or else she'll think badly of you...pfff...so infantile...and no, I don't think it's "common courtesy" to avoid all contact with your x's momz..if she likes me & i like her and we want to hang out and my ex is cool with it (which he is bc i did talk to him about it) then why not spend some time together..does anyone here even the reasons for the rule You have here...lol..in Europe we think that American r so laid back...NOT!!!..u structure and regulate everything to 10th degree here, and r so uptight about these kinds of things..what do you think is gonna happen if you hang out with your ex's momz huh??? *scratching my head*...
and 1.13. "Paige"...lol..really, bite me, if you think I care..lol..believe me, honey, it beats dating a...well, that would be too X-rated to delve into...lol..
Ashland,
No, you can still be cordial to the ex's parents, but
going shopping with the ex's mom is a little too much.
Calling them a few times a yr or sending them a xmas
should suffice.
And again, it's about respecting your current partner
not a jealousy issue.
When you are dating someone and brought into their family and love and respect his or her parents, siblings, etc are you just supposed to cut those ties because you are no longer with that person? If spending time with people you have relationships with bothers your current partner than you should probably evaluate how much trust that person has in you.
Chantal
I think it only matters if you're in a current
relationship. Since you're not, than it really shouldn't matter.
Chantal,
STFU.
Chantal dear.. it's not that we have all these rules here.. don't you think it's just common decency not to hang out with the ex's mother? They don't have kids together and were never married.. why get together at all? ALso, to me, you kind of have to think about how decent of a person is Gisele anyway? She started dating a man that broke up with another woman, that turned out pregnant, within a matter of weeks. Doesn't anyone think that doesn't say a lot about Tom for sure but Gisele too?
ps: but..lol..I have to give your pollsters some credit, bc they're very good at coming up with survey results that seem pretty feasable...without any data!! lol...I always thought there's more capability in the human mind than the scientific method..he he he..
huh...I never said I cared about the online survey...those social "rules" I was basing my opinion on don't just become apparent in your polls (if at all), but much more so in daily life...when you live here long enough you kinda get the drift of what pple consider ok to do and not ok to do, here in the US...and call me crazy but I had a nagging suspicion that the majority of Americans would find this an offensive (to hang out w your exe's momz) thing to do.."people" are gonna think there's something wierd about it - and it shows, regardless of any polls..so..get it?
I still see my ex's mother, but then again she is the grandmother of our boys, but I can honestly say that if there were no children involved I think I would not, there are no hard feelings between us, but it is strange being around her sometimes, and she is a SWEET SWEET person.
The question is--Does Tom Brady's mom hang out with his ex, Bridget, mother of her grandson?!
I have never heard that she has seen her grandbaby, nor has his father since he was born!
Gisele might want to think about that!
Chantal
why would really care what an online survey of 100's of people you don't know say?
i don't know why American are so freakin uptight about this stuff...all those "rules" you have here stress me out more than hanging out with anyone..lol..
Unless you have children with your ex, than no.
It's disrespectful to your current partner.
as a matter of fact I do hang out with my ex-fiance's mom...bc she invited me to come visit her..and my ex is cool with it...and he's now moved on, and me too..so it's no biggie...
MOVE ON



