I sincerely hope you learn from this Richie, I have also been a fan of BonJovi from the very beginning. I had a DUI 20 years ago. It can happen so fast and so easy. Alot of people have no idea, just a few drinks (like most people do) can get you arrested. I spent a night in jail and vowed never to do it again. And I havent. I dont even drink anymore. It was a horrible experience. Richie, I know you didnt mean to do this intentionally, but you have got to reach out and get some help. Im sure Jon would do whatever it took to help you. But you have got to want it. I also know that no one can feel another persons pain, but I do know, that God will help you if you let HIM. I will always love BonJovi... You have done so much for so many people,like the Katrina disaster. PLEASE HELP YOURSELF Love ya, Lisa-Indy

I just read this not too long ago when my friend told me he was on tv and looked so haggard. I was just listening to "the answer" the other day and had my 12 year old son read it and analyze it -- my friend indicated for my son to be so astute at that age to pick that song apart like he did, it's too bad Mr. Sambora can't re-read them words to that song. If he needs help, by all means call me and I'll be more than happy to give him the printout of what my son did to his song. I agree with others -- Richie stay away from the bimbos, blonds, and models -- if you seriously need help, you're still only 10 years older than I and I've been a fan for over 20+ years.....READ THE WORDS TO "THE ANSWER" RICHIE!!!

Hello, ive been a bon jovi fan since their first tape came out(yes im showing my age) i will always be a fan. richie is only human. he will do what he needs to do to stay sober. if they are people in your life you tell you its ok to drink get rid of them. they arent your friends. you need to stay away from drinking altogether. we all fall from time to time we are only human. he is a stand up guy, he will do what he needs to. you will always have my support. i was always taught that we all do dumb things, we need to learn from the things we do. im sure his band and his family are behind him as well. i wish you well richie. god bless you. chrissy4915

what a horrible photo! i've always thought he was the best looking guy walking. his photo looks better than denise though. lol.

No matter what, there is NO excuse for drinking and driving with your freakin' daughter in the car!!!!! (or doing it at all for that matter) But with the daughter and all, it's not merely a lapse of judgement anymore, it's just enraging and irresponsible. Yes, celebrities are under a microscope, but if I had a friend that did that, I would be horrified.

Come on people!
This is his thing. Yea the situation sucks and I know all of us (die hard bon jovi fans) are sadden and disappointed but that is no reason to say you wont listen to the band again. he has had some problems and he has checked into rehab and kept tryin. unfortunately this happen. but this is his business. whatever happens either be with him or leave him alone. thats it. either way this is his life and everyone should just leave it there and respect that.

First of all, he hasn't been "in and out of marriages" since 1990. He's only been married once, to Heather in 1994. I am very saddened and disappointed in what Richie has allowed to have happen but I've been a fan for 25 years and will continue to do so. Once the California judicial system has had it's say, I am hoping Richie goes into a long term rehab treatment facility. Right now, he needs to worry about saving his life and getting his life back on track with his daughter. Richie, don't worry about the fans okay? The true fans like myself will be here when you get back. No matter if that takes a year, two years, or 20. You're in my prayers.

I have been a fan of Bon Jovi since I was a teenager. Their music got me through many difficult times in life such as losing my own father at a young age. I have passed that love of their music on to my three kids as well but lets face the facts. As much as I love Richie's music and to see him perform, what he did was a choice and a stupid choice at that. Not only has he risked his life as well as his daughter and those around him, he has put the band in a difficult situation, he may lose his daughter over this and he has left many fans speechless and having to defend our love of the band to those who want to judge Richie. I am really torn over this because as a mother to a son who was literally ran over by a drunk teenager, my blood boils that he did this to his own daughter, but as a fan of his, I want to see him get help and recover from this. I for one feel if he is convicted of DUI he needs to suffer the punishment and I pray that this will be the rock bottom he needs to get help and recover from his addiction. This isn't a situation where double standards are needed or even helpful, he needs help and if getting arrested and putting Ava's life in jeapordy helps him realize he needs help then I am glad it happened and no one got physically hurt. I still love him and the band and will continue to support them and go to the concerts, but I refuse to make excuses for his bad choices and say he deserves another break.

To Dana Point, CA--
You're an idiot!! His daughter was in the car and he should not have been driving. It only takes a split second for an accident to happen. The next time you're drinking why don't you put your kid in the car and go for a ride--or better yet the next time you see nice guy Richie out to dinner knocking back a few drinks why don't you ask him to take your kid for a ride---you're soooo stupid.

Richie, May God grant you the serenity to accept the things you can not change, the courage to change the things you can, and the wisdom to know the difference. Please get the help you need. We'll still be here when you get back.

This makes my heart feel very sad in more ways than one. I am a major fan of BON*JOVI and have admired Richie Sambora for many years. He is a superbly talented musician and a dear, sweet man, and a great person to boot. However, we can all be victims of our own poor choices and their consequences - no matter who we are! Obviously, this has proved to be Richie's turn in the pit. And I'm sorry about all the pain this is causing him and those who love him most. But I pray that necessary steps and proper treatment will make the difference once and for all, that Richie might be made well and restored to a healthy, happy, peace- filled life again. God bless you, Rich ~ be better soon ~ I love ya!

Went to a party Mom...
I went to a party,
And remembered what you said.
You told me
not to drink, Mom,
so I had a sprite instead.

I felt proud of myself,
The way you said I would,
that I didn't drink and drive,
though some friends said I should.

I made a healthy choice,
And your advice to me was right.
The party finally ended,
and the kids drove out of sight.

I got into my car,
Sure to get home in one piece.
I never knew what was coming, Mom,
something I expected least.

Now I'm lying on the pavement,
And I hear the policeman say,
the kid that caused this wreck was drunk,
Mom, his voice seems far away.

My own blood's all around me,
As I try hard not to cry.
I can hear the paramedic say,
this girl is going to die.

I'm sure the guy had no idea,
While he was flying high.
Because he chose to drink and drive,
now I would have to die.

So why do peopl e do it, Mom
Knowing that it ruins lives?
And now the pain is cutting me,
like a hundred stabbing
knives.

Tell sister not to be afraid, Mom
Tell daddy to be brave.
And when I go to heaven,
put ' Mommy's Girl' on my grave.

Someone should have taught him,
That it's wrong to drink and drive.
Maybe if his parents had,
I'd still be alive

My breath is getting shorter,
Mom I'm getting really scared
These are my final moments,
and I'm so unprepared.

I wish that you could hold me Mom,
As I lie here and die.
I wish that I could say, 'I love you, Mom!'
So I love you and good-bye.

MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Drivers)

How the hell do any of you know what he is going through? He had a bad year last year and I'm not saying what he did was right. But unless you know what he has been through and what he is feeling who are you to judge!!! I lost my mother to cancer a month before my 16th birthday. I lost my father almost 2 yrs later of a heart attack. I know the pain and heartache he is feeling. I was an alcoholic by the time my father died.I still struggle with the problem 14yrs later. Idon't drink to get drunk, but I occasionally do drink. I'm glad to say I haven't had a drink in almost 2yrs though. But everyone really needs to stop judging him, give him his privacy, and let him deal with this himself with his family and friends. Don't be so quick to criticize and judge unless you have been in his shoes.Richie, I love you and always have. I've been a fan of yours since day one. I understand what your going through cause I've been there. Your fans are behind you 100%. We love and support you. I hope everything works out for you and you can beat this addiction. I was lucky enough to see you twice in 10 days in Pittsburg this month. You looked fantastic and sounded even better. You are in my prayers. I look forward to seeing you again real soon.Love Always Richie!!!

Rich come on not with Ava in the car. Please get the help you need before Heather does something drastic!!!! I am a huge bon jovi fan and wish you all the best. I have seen pictures of your daughter and she is gorgeous
Take care of yourself!!!!!

Come on, why do you think Heather dumped him? Why do you think he's been in AA? Heather's been on depression drugs for months. The botox, the lack of roles, the husband with a size 6 hush puppy in his rear. I'm sure she is livid. Don't be surprised if some yeh-yo is in the test as well as Jack.