Dear Annonymous...

its not about being "moral" its that i feel bad for trista that her man would say those things to the public. some things should be kept inside his own head, or at the least just between him and his wife!

I used to love this couple. But I have to say Ryan's comments are a little disturbing! I can't believe he actually admitted to a national tabloid magazine that he likes to sneak looks at cute 25yr olds behind his sunglasses! Oh poor Trista! No wonder she's so gun ho on getting her bikini body back. Ryan's gonna find a younger cuter version of her if she doesn't hurry!!!

don't be absurd. if you want to make the argument that nobody knows her well enough to say picky comments then on the same token - nobody knows her well enough to make good comments either. that falls under PUH-LEEZE. anyways, you're missing Sheila's point - she's saying that someone who wants to stay out of media attention would have turned down the money like all the other bachelor couples did. Trista is a hypocrite - I saw her on a show called Celeb wannabes hypocrites where they showed all the footage of her saying that she would do the wedding for the money on the first bachelor and then she actually did it with someone else but tried to act all frilly and say it was really for love...umm yeah....if you want people to believe you and take you s eriously, (either don't lie .... or if you're going to lie dont set yourself up to get caught) I can't stand this couple either because she is very shallow and phony and takes advantage of him. She was also the first one ever voted off the dancing series, everyone else made it farther then she did which is sooo sad. And it was all because she thinks everybody wants her and thinks she's sooo great and wants her so much. She needs to learn humility and stop the arrogance. Forget about the money - She did make stupid comments - I saw that Us magazine interview too where she said that she would just leave the baby if she could. I was appalled. She has her priorities way screwed up. The first moments of motherhood are not about finding ways to get rid of the baby so you can get to the gym. It was sad. So you guys can respect her if you want but I have no idea for what you're respecting her for except being a horrible mother and example. And of course....we are all so keeping tabs on her trying for more babies....yeah right! She just keeps saying that because she wants people to be picturing her naked. It's unnecessary and not becoming of a new mom.

I can't stand this couple. Why is this magazine wasting precious magazine space on them. It's annoying that trista contantly tries to pass herself off as a normal person but most "normal people" are not shrill, shallow and annoy people to death. She's missing the important part of being a mother. She did an interview I saw where she said that now that the baby is out of her body, she wants her body back yesterday because sex is the important thing in her relationship, and that when ryan is working she can't just leave the baby so she waits for him to get back so she can work out. Honestly she said those exact words " i can't just leave him so I wait to go to the gym" Call me nuts but I would think taking care of the baby and spending quality time with him is the important stuff to be talking about, not about how if she could she would leave the kid to go work out, as if that is really what is more important. I mean come on, this is not a race to get into a bathing suit, that's not the important part of parenting. Also, don't forget people - this couple were paid $1 million each to get married to each other, it had nothing to do with airing the wedding, so dont "relate to them as every day people" too much. I know tons of people with ABC, don't let trista fool you....she was paid a heck of alot of money for nothing.....i remember her on the first bachelor where she said "this isn't a prize, not like a million dollars". it's so ironic......and sad really. she got that million dollars and more so of course she will make everything look like such "real love". please

I have a problem with a man saying in public he gets off watching breastfeeding. To me that is something between the husband and wife or partner. Our society has gone too far, there is no privacy between couples any longer. Why dont you people learn to keep some things to yourself and have respect for your marriage.

wow! whhat an inspiring story!! it really reaches out to me to understand the male nature.. they love boobs....

Now that was REALLY too much info !! A little gross too.

Um... good for him if he really gets turned on by breastfeeding!

Yes it is gross! Going to the bathroom is "normal" too, but I sure don't want to see a man with his d*ck hanging out. Do what you want to do but keep it to yourself. The women in my family who chose to feed their babies with this method would go to an empty room, shut the door and cover with a blanket so the rest of the group didn't have to sit totally uncomfortable for the next hour. Come on people the year is now 2008 breast feeding is none other than a fad in this day and age.

HEY! NEWSFLASH! Lots of men get turned on by breastfeeding and it is NOT gross and it IS NORMAL! As for the wandering eye... EVERY MAN DOES IT.. at least he has the decency to cover it up with sunglasses out of respect for his wife and if he can say that he does it, it's harmless it's when he's covering it up that theres a problem. If you can find a man who doesn't check out attractive women and doesn't get turned on by the sight of your bulging breasts.. you may want to find another one because there may be a problem. Other than that I think they're an adorable couple, have an adorable baby and I'm happy for them and wish them the best of luck!

what a pervy thing to say!

Wow Jules, somebody's bitter. I think it's pretty obvious Ryan adores Trista, if you've ever seen them EVER. He's trying to be funny about the 25 year old "staring at them with sunglasses" thing. It fell flat, but it's just a joke. His wife is as hot as a 25 year old anyway and I'm sure he knows it.

First of all he doesnt say that breastfeeding turns him on...what he says is seeing his wifes breasts even when she is ABOUT to breastfeed turns him on. So it makes a man a weirdo that seeing his wifes breasts turns him on, no whats really sad is how many men arent turned on by seeing their wifes. The article is about what women dont know about men. So one thing he admits to is the fact that men do look at good looking younger woman. That is a fact that all men do do, I think it makes him a bigger man to able to admit that.

Ok...if the only thing my husband and I have going on is the fact that we want to televise his wadering eye...I gotta think we don't have a lot.

Trista, you lost ALL that weight to get his attention, and he is still acting like a high school BOY!! Either go back to reality dating or KEEP FISHING, cause what you have appears STANK!

I am ALL FOR trying for more babies, but may I suggest doing so on the pill. HE IS NOT STAYING!

I didn't even know that he had a thought in his head. If he isn't going to say too much, maybe he should choose his words wisely, .