Many couples swing both ways and still have happy marriages. If you ask me, she looks just as gay as he does. Now I have to go and figure out why I am sucked into this and took the time to comment. This is one chick who thinks she is something that she is not, I never liked her.

i think its funny she wants her life private, but shes the one always in everyone elses business talkin about them. come on.

DUDE is gayer than the Queer Eye guys

11:17 Tracy- How funny: My mention of the commune was in reference to your preaching- praise the lord. It had nothing to do with the size of the wedding just the spectacle of it. And she played it out to the media big time. And no- not all women want a grand scale wedding, some like a more intimate affair. Seriously, if your going to comment about a previous post at least know what was written.

WHAT WOMEN DOES NOT WANT TO SHOW OFF HER WEDDING? TOM AND KATIE SOLD THIER WEDDING PICTURES TO A MAGAZINE AND AT LEAST SHE IS NOT SHOVING A KID IN YOUR FACE TO MAKE A PROFIT LIKE ANGELINA OR TOM AND KATIE WHO SOLD BABY PICTURES TO MAGAZINES.. WHY KICK A PERSON WHEN THEY ARE DOWN?

To the Curious,
TO MR/MS. CURIOUS:
Why are you worried about Star? You need to worry about your life and your mistakes. That raid that you were talking about, oh, yea, I did see you on the news with your wives. Unfortunately, those were only white people and I am black. Like yourself, you might want to run before they put you in jail for incest. It is her life, you nosy people would have been in it anyway if she didnt tell it. They would have been doing her just like they were in Beyonces and Jayzee business wondering if they got married. They didnt tell anyone but close friends but it made HEADLINE NEWS. Who wouldnt want a fairy tale wedding, I would love it along with any other woman. Who would want a little house wedding vs a big lavish wedding with the gifts? Dont lie and say that you dont. If you could afford it, it would have been bigger than hers. Unfortunately, all of us cant afford a wedding like that.

"Every wedding fantasy I ever had was fulfilled..." is a quote from Star Jones the day of her circus of a wedding, and that's says alot. That statement was all about the wedding and said nothing about the marriage. It was so important to have the most beautiful flowers, a custom designed dress, freebies from everyone who's anyone because she's a "celebrity". A fantasy wedding is great, but the fantasy isn't the horse drawn carriage or the a-list guests. The fantasy is the wonderment of the life that you and your new husband are starting together. My husband and I have been married almost 19 years, we had a small family wedding and it was a great day. Since then we have had many other great days, such as when our kids were born, when we bought our first house, the vacations we have taken. It's sad to see so many people, Star among them, fall into the trap that you have to have the splashiest most lavish wedding as proof of your love. Proof of love is living with someone day in and day out over years and years, accepting them and them accepting you regardless of faults or differences. Too many marriages start out with these grandious weddings, and that's why 50% of the marriages in this country fail, because no one can see past the fantasy to the reality of what a marriage truly is.

I think this is sad, I remember when she talked about him on the View she seemed sooo happy!

For those of you judging him and making assumptions about his sexuality:
GROW UP!!!

STAR, LIKE EVERY WOMAN ON THIS PAGE JUST WANTED LOVE AND WANTED TO BE LOVE .......SO WHAT SHE HAD SURGERY TO LOSE WIEGHT IN THIS SOCIETY IF YOU ARE FAT THEN ALOT OF TIMES YOU DON'T GET MARRIED OR FIND LOVE......MAYBE SHE WAS BLIND BUT MAYBE IT HAD BEEN ALONG TIME SINCE SHE HAD A GUY TO SHOW HER ANY ATTENTION....MEN DON'T LIKE FATTY SLOBS....SO SHE LOST WEIGHT AND THOUGHT SHE FOUND LOVE WHY IS EVERYONE PUTTING HER DOWN? ALOT OF PEOPLE ARE BLINDED WHEN THEY ARE IN LOVE......

I'm sorry if this is mean but I've been thinking this guy was gay from the beginning. Look at his face and how he dresses!

his bachelor had a roman bath theme and he hangs out on fire island. no secret he's gay.

hasn't anyone seen the picture of him wearing a seersucker jacket with knickers and knee socks? yes, he is gay.

break out the liza minelli records! Star is a smart woman but didn't she think something was up when he went to a gay club for his bachelor party?

The National Enquirer had this story a while back, that she was going to file for divorce. I was not surprise. Why did he quit his job after they married? Star has to remember you cannot change a guy if he is gay, or whatever. It does not happen. Good luck Star.

Okay, yes, he looks metrosexual but there's a difference between being metro and being gay. Is there any proof - even the gossip web site varity - of him dating/falling in love with/sleeping with men?

Regarding handling her divorce with dignity and grace - actions speak louder than words. Don't say anything to the media at all, Starr. It's better to be thought a fool and keep your mouth shut than open it and remove all doubt.