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Ben Higgins on Lauren Bushnell Split: ‘I Am Not Perfect’

Ben Higgins took to social media on Tuesday, May 30, to address critics following his split from fiancée Lauren Bushnell.

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“I cannot focus on the negative comments or indecently hateful words being said about me or my relationship even though they do sting,” Higgins wrote alongside a photo of himself and his podcast cohost Ashley Iaconetti. “I will once again clearly tell you I AM NOT PERFECT as none of us are and I have never claimed to be. … The last few months have not gone the way I would have preferred. My relationships have changed drastically and what I envisioned my life was going to be has been redirected. It is sad, but it is nothing you should feel sorry for me about, life happens both the good and bad.”

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You are going to hurt somebody, you are going to hurt somebody deeply. But, I will not be one of those people. I cannot focus on the negative comments or indecently hateful words being said about me or my relationship even though they do sting. I do know great people that I care about deeply that comments and criticisms have affected and as a result I wanted to share my words. A small minority of people (at least I will continue to believe it is a small minority) want to see people suffer or fail. Personally, my basis for judging myself is simple, if I do something that doesn’t represent Christ then I will listen to the opinions and words from family and friends who know me best and love me. I do desire (by the direction of family and peers) to become a better person daily. I know some will not agree with my intentions but in all things my pursuit is to represent Christ better. With that, I will once again clearly tell you I AM NOT PERFECT as none of us are and I have never claimed to be. I do desire to show love in all situations (do I always do that? No, I fail often). To be clear, not that this should be a surprise, but this podcast is a professional decision I have made to enhance my life and career. I still have a full time job. I am still running Generous Coffee company. I still have a blog. I am still actively involved in @humanityandhope. And now, because I was given the opportunity, I have added a podcast with a friend and a great company (@iheartradio) to talk about life (and I love to talk). The last few months have not gone the way I would have preferred. My relationships have changed drastically and what I envisioned my life was going to be has been redirected. It is sad, but it is nothing you should feel sorry for me about, life happens both the good and bad. With this, what do you think I should do now? For all of you that have given me advice let me give you some from my heart. Love as hard as you can (even to strangers). Ask yourself what life is about and pursue your conclusion with passion. When a good opportunity comes your way that fits your desires take it, because life is short but a lot more fun when you are doing something you enjoy.

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As previously reported, the season 20 Bachelor star and Bushnell, 27, announced on May 15 that they were ending their relationship. Shortly after, Higgins announced that he was partnering with Ianconetti for their iHeart podcast Ben and Ashley: Almost Famous.

Ben Higgins at the 2016 iHeart Radio Music Festival Photo Room at T-Mobile Arena.
Ben Higgins at the 2016 iHeart Radio Music Festival Photo Room at T-Mobile Arena.

The pair have since denied rumors of a romance but have faced criticism for kicking off their new gig fresh off Higgins’ announcement of his split from Bushnell.

Ben Higgins and Lauren Bushnell at the 'Today' Show in New York City March 18, 2016.
Ben Higgins and Lauren Bushnell at the ‘Today’ Show in New York City March 18, 2016.

“To be clear, not that this should be a surprise, but this podcast is a professional decision I have made to enhance my life and career,” Higgins added in his Instagram caption. “Because I was given the opportunity, I have added a podcast with a friend and a great company (@iheartradio) to talk about life (and I love to talk).”

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The Denver-based politican concluded in his post that everyone should “love as hard as you can” and “when a good opportunity comes your way that fits your desires take it, because life is short.”

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