He knew from first down! Kristin Cavallari shared some new insight on her marriage to NFL hunk Jay Cutler in a revealing new Twitter Q&A hosted by Revlon and Cosmopolitan on Wednesday, June 10.
The pregnant-again former Hills star, 28, who counts Stephen Colletti and Brody Jenner among her exes, was asked to share her favorite date ever. Naturally, it was with her now-husband. "The 2nd time I ever hung out w Jay we decided to go to Nashville last minute," the mom of two shared. "And had the best 24hrs! It was the most fun I've ever had."
In fact, there was no gray area for the lovebirds. "We moved really fast," Cavallari dished. "He told me he loved me after 2 wks & that he wanted 2 marry me aftr 2 months. I knew right away!"
That's not to say their relationship was all fun and games. Although Cavallari was accustomed to Hollywood after starring on Laguna Beach, Cutler could not say the same. "The pop culture world was all new for Jay," she dished. "So paparazzi bothered him (still does) and it took a lot of adjusting. He wasn't used to ppl.... Which can put strain on a relationship unless u have a really solid foundation."
After briefly calling off their engagement in 2011, the stars tied the knot in 2013. Two years into their marriage, Cavallari shared some relationship pointers with fans in her Q&A.
"COMMUNICATION! You can't assume the other knows how u are feeling...." she wrote, adding that this filters down to disagreements. "Learn 2 B a good fighter (or less of one) by saying this makes ME feel..instead of YOU did this," she continued. "Don't be afraid 2 B vulnerable (hard 4 me!)"
Cavallari previously told Us Weekly that her life with Cutler is pretty normal, although they like to spruce things up occasionally. Last week, the parents of Camden, 2, and Jax, 13 months, attended the Chicago Bears gala together, where they looked gorgeous in their black-tie attire.
Otherwise, they’re usually coasting along at home in Chicago, and hopefully eventually Nashville. (Cavallari told Elle.com this week that she hopes to end up in the Southern city, where they already own property.)
"We're pretty boring and make dinner at home," Cavallari tweeted on Wednesday. "But wait to eat until after the kids go to sleep so we can connect... Light candles and put phones away. Take a bath (doesn't even have to be sexual..or it can!) but it's all about talking and connecting since we're both so busy and are always with the kids which makes it hard to have a real conversation until after [they're] in bed."
Even on date nights, Cavallari said her husband appreciates her natural beauty. "Jay hates makeup and prefers me without any," she shared. "But even when I have some on, he's not a fan of red lips or anything heavy (obviously)."
While she's found her happily-ever-after in the quarterback's arms, her relationship history wasn't always a fiesta. Cavallari shared a series of emojis to describe her dating history, using everything from passion to tears.
???????????????????????????????? had some good ones and some WHAT WAS I THINKINGS!!! ????— Kristin Cavallari (@KristinCav) June 10, 2015
For those currently struggling with heartbreak, the former reality star did have some quality advice. "Stay busy!" she shared, adding that it's okay to be ruthless at times. "No social media stalking..cut them out of your life completely. Go out with your girls, get dressed up, and dance... #AskKristin."
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