i cannot belive her husband cheated on her
Friday October 13, 2006

jpistudios.com
Country music singer and Dancing with the Stars contestant Sara Evans filed for divorce from her husband Craig Schelske on Thursday. Evans, 35, filed the papers in state court in Franklin, a Nashville suburb where the couple live with their three children, Avery, 7, Olivia, 3, and Audrey, 2. They have been married since 1993. Schelske, 43, ran for Congress as a Republican from Oregon's 5th District in 2002.
"Her husband has had a long time porn problem. He's addicted to web porn and it's been a strong source of contention in their marriage,” a source behind the scenes at DWTS tells Us Weekly. “She very recently found out that he had struck up a relationship with another woman he met on the Internet and began having an affair."
Evans also announced through a rep Thursday that she was leaving ABC's Dancing with the Stars to "give her family full attention at this difficult time."
Adds the source: "Sara is devastated, this has left her breathless, and all she can think about is getting back to her children.”
In the papers, Evans alleges that her husband committed adultery, was verbally and emotionally abusive, and drank excessively. She also says that he "frequently watches pornography" and has "at least 100 photographs” of him posing in a state of arousal, as well as "several photographs showing [Schelske] having sex with other women." Evans also attached details from Schelske's postings on CraigsList where he allegedly requests "three party sex and anal sex."
Evans is seeking child custody, possession of the Franklin home and child support.
Categories: Sara Evans | Dancing with the Stars | Divorce
Very sorry Sara to here about your personal problems.I have always been a fan and felt it was nice to get to know you a bit better on Dancing With The Stars.If all you have said about your husband is true you and your children are much better off without him.You are going to need good support from family ,friends,and fans to get through this.Your a beautiful woman and any man in his right mind would be lucky to have you as his partner in life.You still have a lot to be thankful for such as three lovely children and a great career in country music.I can;t help but agree with people who say this should not have been made so public because of your children but it,s too late now.One last point ;I know from personal experiance that being apart a lot of the time puts a great deal of strain on any relationship. All The Best !!!
KC, your Lorena Bobbit comments are moronic. Sarah-baby using her 15 minutes of fame to make vicious, scandelous ALLEGATIONS against her husband is plain wrong. Divorce and the charges for marital breakdown is a private matter. If she were not associated with the TV show, none of this would have received such media attetion. For whatever reason, she decided to skewer the man in public... a sure sign of a chicken-azzed coward, loser.
When I heard the news, I had a funny feeling that it had to do with porn. It's amazing the problems people are having today with porn addiction. They're sick, something is wrong with them and they need help big time. I'm so very sorry Sara, that's a terrible thing to happen to you or anyone else for that matter. You're a great entertainer, I watched you on dancing w/ the stars. As beautiful as you are, I saw the stress in your face. Do not let him do that too you, your first concern is those kids of yours. You're strong, you'll all move on, and I hope he gets what he deserves!!!! Kick his ass in court girl friend....
This is an interesting place to make a post. I enjoyed watching Sara's "growth"
as a dancer. At the beginning the judges were all very very hard on her.
Alison "Clinton" --- The "nanny".......the last name may be a "red flag" as to insight into Sara's husbands' alleged affair with their children's Nanny! HMMMMM
Anyhow, what does having a QUOTE " ATTRACTIVE" wife " UNQUOTE have to do with someone's addiction to PORN? So what people are saying ( without typing it ) is that it's ok if the wife is ugly but if she's attractive -- somehow it's harder on that attractive wife ?????? What a load of hogwash!
Cheating in a marriage is bad & hurtful. It doesn't matter what the people look like.
Nevermind, this is a very shallow world we live in. And there are far more important things to be concerned about then Sara's marital woes... I do hope that her children were not traumatized like articles have stated they were! That's the saddest part to this all...the children :(
Sara.... come to Canada do a concert for us Canadians, maybe a little dance and find a real men not a sick mouse...... but before you leave kick a little AS@ you have brians, beauty, and you are very talented pick up the pieces and move on sweetie like all of us strong ladies do...............rememeber this. IF GOD BRINGS YOU TO IT HE'LL BRING YOU TROUGH IT.
It is a very sad situation. The husband is pitiful to have behaved in the manner in which he allowed his child to find the pornography. Ms. Evans is talented and her voice is a gift. She should have been "Mother" first "Singer" second and "Dancer" third. In this order she may have realized the problems sooner. Parents can not be wrapped up in themselves. The children must come first! Always! Sometimes you can not just have it all!
Sorry, Sarah, you're a beautiful woman and what does a guy need with internet porn or other women when a beauty like you is at home. I enjoyed your time on "Dancing with the Stars" and thought you did very well. I've been single all my life and never heard of you before but wish only the best for you. Don't go looking for a 'dad' to take his place until you settle down and know yourself. I realize that's like asking the impossible but you owe it to yourself big time! Mean while get out there and knock'em dead, you're an entertainer!
I note some of you support Sara and some of you don't, my God some of you have never even heard of her and you still judge her for what she is doing. I guess those of you who think she is wrong for admiting that her husband deserves everything he is getting and what he has coming to him has never had a relationship problem. Are you trying to tell me that not once have you ever had issues of your own that you have tried to work through and hoped and prayed that things would get better??? Come on, get real...and even if you haven't you have no right to judge her either because thorwing away the past 13 years of anyones life is not as easy as you might think, no matter how much of a pig he might be, especially when there are children involved. She doesn't need her 15 minutes of fame (as one viewer wrote in) to make her a star, because for those of you that don't know of her, she has been one for many years. For her, this is real life, not some soap opera. Best wished to her and her family!!!
I am so sorry for Sarah. She is a great star and role model for all.
Maybe this will help to bring the issue of internet porn and how devasting it is to our family life to increased public awareness. The real danger lies in the fact that it seems harmless at first but it is extremely insidious. I know, I have a husband who is addicted to porn on the internet. He has not had any "real" affairs, but the time he spends on the computer has been very hurtful to our relationship.
Thank you Sarah for helping to bring this problem to the public.
Nothing like using Dancing With The Stars, to get your 15 mins of fame dragged into 20 mins. I also never heard of her before dancing with the stars.
Certainly Sara knew he had a problem, but waited until she was on Dancing With
The Stars to file? How embarrassing for her kids and herself. You would think she would respect herself more. Her husband has had a long time porn problem. He's addicted to web porn and it's been a strong source of contention in their marriage". Now the whole world knows.. . I rest my case.
Ummmm...hello she didn't know he was a perv before they got married!!!!!!!!!He must have showed that side of him once or twice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sara is a beautiful woman with talent and deserves a whole lot better than that piece of crap for a husband.
I'd hit it.
Dont Know , Dont Care , Her dancing sucks but her videos have nice T&A
I read some of the comments critizing her for airing her dirty laundry to the world and not taking care of this matter privately. Someone that is in the spotlight like her has no privacy. I admire her for airing the truth and not letting the media just guess what's going on and making a mockery of it. As for blaming the time she spends on the road for their problems, someone has to make a living. Isn't he unemployed? There are plenty of stars that have perfectly happy marriages. Remember, it takes two to make it work.
What I find most disturbing about the whole thing is that she apparantly doesn't mind her dirty laundry being spread out for the world to see. Why did she not do this privately like some other celebrity couples have done in the past so that the papers were sealed from the public and media?? I'm sure she's angry at her husband, but she needs to keep in mind that he IS the father of her children and the nasty things she says about him now will only come back to haunt the children later. (I know this from experience!)
It would have been much more respectable to have simply told the Dancing With The Stars folks that she needed to bow out "for personal reasons" and left it at that. We don't all need to know the dirty little secrets of her failed marriage.
9:07 AM Anonymous, puh-leassseee...get a sense of humor. I'm sorry, but it's hard for me to feel sorry for someone who is out touring the world, leaving her family sitting home, and then she wonders why her marriage fell apart????
I saw Sara Evans in concert and she was talking about how much she loved her her husband of twelve years and her children. I am so sad for her during this time! I will be praying for her and her children to get through this difficult time. She is gorgeous and I think she can bounce back from this. I love you Sara!!
So if she quits will they bring back Willa Ford? I hope so.
Girl! you keep your head high you are a BEAUTIFUL! woman and your ex has some mayor problems within himself he needs to seek some couensling! and a higher power!He has to many DEMONS! around him and you cannot put your babys thru that! you are defienitly doing the right thing I will pray for you and yourf family!
How sad for her. I hope you guys that are making jokes never have something like this happen to you.
12:11
That's just so wrong. LMAO
He was advertising for three party sex and anal sex? Hmm..wonder if he wanted to give or recieve? ROTFL!!!!!!!!
I Must Say How Devastating This Must Be To The Family. I'm Sure There Is Alot Of Confusion For Her Dear Childen. I Think That With Being Famous It Puts So Much Added Stress Seeing Your Always In The Public Eye With Everything You Do And Every Mistake You Make. To Have Such A Public Life And Relationship I Can Only Imagine How Humiliated She Is. I Know With Being Famous The Public Eye And Nosiness Of Others Is Something You Have To Deal With And Really Cant Complain Seeing Its The Life You Choose. But I Do Hope Everyone Does See She Is Just A Person Like Everyone Else That Just So Happens To Get A Massive Amount Of Attention For The Talent She Has. I Wish Her All The Best In Her TIme Of Need
I feel for Sara, but I would like to say that not all men are like this, and a man looking at porn does not mean he is a dog. Lying about looking at porn is the problem. Lying in general is a problem. I agree about the comment that if you aren't going to commit fully then don't get married....however, you will always think that the grass could be greener and thats just human nature. Acting on your thoughts is very different. I just would like to let women know that this is not how all men are.
anon, you might be right, but you know as well as I do that there are people out there as she is claiming him to be, if not worse, and I think it's a sad situation and maintain my position on how I feel about predicaments like that :)
I think that Sara is great but we all know that she wouldn't have made it to the finals. Her husband sounds like a dog!



