I do not think anybody's career should ever come before their marriage. This is definitely not a good reason for a separation. Marriage is about compromises and sacrifices. Of course, I do not know all the details but, on the other hand, no spouse should ever expect their significant other to totally abandon their career while maintaining theirs. Sounds like neither party wanted to sacrifice or one person expected the other half to do all of the sacrificing while giving nothing in return. Sad they could not reach some sort of agreement. Nevertheless, I am a huge fan of Kate Winslet and I think she is a terrific actress and the sexiest actress out there because she is extremely beautiful, talented, and confident in who she is, without feeling the pressure to conform to what Hollywood expects her to be. Hope to see her on the screen real soon.