Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott aren't splitting up.
"We're not headed for divorce," Spelling, 36, on Monday's Today show. "We're committed to each other, we're committed to this family. But you know, we work on things just like everyone else."
Rumors that the couple of four years were calling it quits sprouted up after footage from the fifth season of their Oxygen reality show, Tori & Dean: Home Sweet Hollywood, showed them feuding.
"It's like you got more and more unhappy and angry," Spelling says to her husband, 43. "I just want the old Dean back. I really do. I miss you so much."
But, Spelling — who is mom to Liam, 3, and Stella, 2 — tells the new issue of Us Weekly that "there are good days and bad days with everything. I'm happy fans will see we have ups and downs like everyone else."
Despite the rough patch, the couple says they wouldn't change anything about their lives — or take their show off TV.
"If we were on another series, or Dean was, we'd be gone 17 hours a day," Spelling tells Us. Adds McDermott, "Its a lot of fun and we get to spend time together."
Also on the mend: Tori's relationship with her mom, Candy. Their longstanding feud peaked after Aaron Spelling's 2006 death.
“It's a work in progress, but it's great," Spelling says. "She sees the grandkids all the time. She loves them, they're taken by her. So we're just working towards improving our relationship."