Jake Pavelka will see ex-fiancee Vienna Girardi face-to-face on a July 5 episode of The Bachelorette, but he already has harsh words for his ex-fiancee.
"There was a serious lack of respect in the relationship," he tells Extra of Girardi, 29, who has denied reports of a fling with Greek star Gregory Michael. " I would like to think that she didn't cheat."
The 32-year-old pilot adds that he was shocked when Girardi sold her story to a tabloid. "What did I ever do to you that you would go down and sell your story to a magazine? Is being famous that important to you?"
He adds angrily: "If you don't want to be with me, that's OK. But there's a very amicable way to split relationships up and she did it the wrong way!"
Pavelka confirms that Girardi resented his rising celebrity, including stints on Dancing with the Stars and the Lifetime series Drop Dead Diva.
"Fame changes people," he snipes. "She feels like Dancing with the Stars should have been hers, but in my view, I felt like it was ours." (The then-happy couple danced a duet on the finale of DWTS, weeks after he'd been voted off.)
"She started to get insanely jealous over these wonderful things that were happening in life, and they directly affected her. I saw her frustrations, so I tried to include her in everything I did."
Accordingly, insiders tell Us Weekly that Girardi "was jealous of him and did not support his career. The cheating was just the final straw. Things had been troubled for awhile."
In addition to his July 5 appearance on The Bachelorette, Pavelka will also show up on Bachelor Pad, host Chris Harrison told Entertainment Tonight. "I can't explain everything. It just happened, but Jake Pavelka will definitely play his part ," Harrison said.
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