Eva Longoria: I Didn't Question My Worth After Tony Parker Cheated

Celebrity News May. 11, 2012 AT 8:45AM
Eva Longoria leaves "The Late Show with David Letterman" at Ed Sullivan Theater on May 9, 2012 in New York City. Eva Longoria leaves "The Late Show with David Letterman" at Ed Sullivan Theater on May 9, 2012 in New York City. Credit: Donna Ward/Getty Images

Most women would be furious to to learn that their husband had been unfaithful. Not Eva Longoria.

On Lifetime's The Conversation With Amanda de Cadenet Thursday, the 37-year-old Desperate Housewives star admitted that she doesn't carry any "baggage" from her failed three-year marriage to San Antonio Spurs point guard Tony Parker, 29.

PHOTOS: Eva Longoria's smokin' hot post-split style

"I am so secure in who I am. I really am! And I'm not conceited. I just think, "Wow, okay, that's the life you want to live.' It wasn't about who he chose. I mean, I had moments [where I wondered], 'Am I not sexy enough? Am I not pretty enough? Am I not smart enough?' But in so many of those questions, I immediately stopped and said, 'No, don't start doing that.' Because you can get stuck in that cycle and you can carry on to other things."

VIDEO: The Desperate Housewives cast reacts to Mike Delfino's shocking death

Longoria confronted Parker about the hundreds of inappropriate texts between him and mutual friend Erin Barry (who denied having an affair), which helped her understand why he cheated.

"Even having the conversation, I really wanted to provide a pillow for him to say and express 'the why.' Because I really wanted to know why," Longoria explained. "'I don't want to judge you. I'm not going to judge you. I'm not going to be mad in this moment. I'll be mad later.'"

Eva Longoria Parker and Tony Parker attend the 62nd Primetime Emmy Awards at Nokia Theatre L.A. Live on August 29, 2010 in Los Angeles, California.
Eva Longoria Parker and Tony Parker attend the 62nd Primetime Emmy Awards at Nokia Theatre L.A. Live on August 29, 2010 in Los Angeles, California.
Credit: Gregg DeGuire/PictureGroup

The actress added: "People say, 'What grace!' And it wasn't that. I really wanted to know, and if you genuinely want to get something out of somebody, you have to not judge."

Longoria acknowledged that Parker's infidelity "was definitely not about me" and hearing about it "didn't make me feel better, but it helped me understand."

PHOTOS: A-list women who've been cheated on

Sixteen months after her divorce was finalized, Longoria said she's "having a lot of fun" again. "I'm in a transitional state where I have no rules and I have no boundaries, and I don't really want to put those back up."

The Conversation with Amanda de Cadenet airs Thursdays at 11 p.m. EST on Lifetime.

How we use your email
X

We may use your e-mail address to send you the newsletter and offers that may interest you, on behalf of Us Weekly and its partners. For more information please read our Privacy Policy.

comments powered by Disqus

ADVERTISEMENT