Buffalo Bills quarterback Josh Allen and his wife, actress Hailee Steinfeld, are finding joy in their quiet nightly routine after putting their daughter to bed.
“We’re trying to limit the screens ‘cause if there’s a screen, she’s over there looking,” Allen, 30, revealed during a Friday, August 28, appearance on Mad Dog Sports Radio, when asked about his go-to ways to unwind each evening. “When we know that [her] eyes [are] closed and almost out, me and my wife play the New York Times crossword every night.”
According to Allen, he and the Sinners actress, 29, will also complete The Times’ daily Connections and Wordle puzzles.
“That’s our little routine that we love doing,” he gushed, also sharing his tried-and-true first guess. “It’s harps, H-A-R-P-S.”
Steinfeld announced in April that she recently gave birth to the couple’s first child. They publicly revealed the infant’s name, Harper Haize, months later in June.
“I’m in awe of you. You’ve been here for only a short while now, and somehow it feels as though you’ve always been ours,” Steinfeld wrote in an open letter to her daughter shared via her “Beau Society” newsletter. “There are moments … I still look at you and wonder how you’re real. These last few months have been beautiful and exhausting. Sacred and so special. The longest days and the shortest season all at once.”
She continued, “People tell you becoming a mother changes everything, but no one tells you how, why, or when exactly. It isn’t always in the big moments. Sometimes it’s realizing that I no longer measure time in months or years, but in ounces, naps missed and naps miraculously taken, in diaper changes and the quiet triumph of a successful transfer from my arms to your crib.”
The Oscar nominee and Allen have been together since 2023, saying “I do” two years later in 2025 before expanding their family. Allen later gushed to Us that welcoming Harper made him “fall in love” with Steinfeld “all over again.”
“Success looks like getting my daughter down, back to sleep at night, It makes everything much less relevant,” Allen exclusively told Us in a July interview. “The outside stuff, it just makes you feel like it doesn’t matter. Honestly, everything about it’s been the best part. I tell this to all my teammates, and anybody who asks, how fatherhood is. It’s the coolest, most rewarding thing. It’s the greatest thing I’ve ever done. … Seeing [Hailee] as a mother, it’s just, it’s awesome.”
