Ciara Miller is still sorting through her feelings after longtime friend Amanda Batula started seeing her ex-boyfriend, and their Summer House costar, West Wilson, earlier this spring.
“Ciara has told friends that if they really are in love, she will accept it,” a source exclusively tells Us Weekly, noting that if West, 31, and Amanda, 34, have true feelings for each other, Ciara, 30, will take the high road.
Ciara will also “come back to the show and try to find a way to move past it” if they are the real deal, according to the insider, who notes that the model “doesn’t want to get in the way of real love.”
Ciara — who dated West in 2023 and was reportedly hooking up with him in the weeks prior to his relationship with Amanda — would think differently if West and Amanda’s relationship is just a short-lived romance.
“At the same time, she feels they would need to get married because losing so much over a ‘situationship’ isn’t worth it for anyone,” the source tells Us. “If it’s just a fling, she isn’t going to forgive them and believes it will all be for nothing and not worth all the pain and emotions that everyone has gone through.”
The insider adds, “Either way, Ciara will not be friends with Amanda or trust her again.”
After Amanda and West confirmed in March that their platonic relationship had “evolved” into something more, it sent shockwaves through the Bravoverse and has divided the stars of Summer House, per the source.
“No one in the cast is talking to West right now,” the insider reveals.
Amanda’s estranged husband, Kyle Cooke, and fellow Summer House OG Lindsay Hubbard are the “only ones talking” to her, according to the source, while “the rest of the cast is not.”
Kyle — who was married to Amanda for four years before their January split — is “keeping an amicable relationship” with his ex, the insiders adds.
Us Weekly has reached out to Bravo for comment.
For those who need a refresher, Amanda and Ciara became instant best friends after Ciara joined the cast of Summer House during season 5, which filmed in 2020.
During season 8 of the reality show, which filmed in 2023, Ciara fell for newbie West. The pair sparked a summer romance that lasted through the fall. They parted ways before the holidays in 2023, with Ciara later claiming that West was “playing games” with her in order to sleep with her before breaking things off.
West apologized for how he ended the relationship during the season 8 reunion and tried to rebuild his friendship with Ciara the next season. When season 10 rolled around, filming in summer 2025, Ciara and West both confessed to the cameras that they still had feelings for each other.
Amanda, meanwhile, yelled at West during the Tuesday, April 14, episode, filmed in August 2025, after he kissed a girl while sitting next to Ciara. Fans have since questioned whether she was really mad at him on behalf of Ciara or if she had already started to have her own feelings for West.
Flash forward to March, when rumors surfaced that Amanda and West were dating after they were spotted spending time together outside of the show. The pair confirmed in a March 31 statement that they were “surprised” by how their dynamic changed in recent months.
Earlier this month, a source exclusively told Us that “West was hitting on Ciara, and they had hooked up recently, about three to four weeks ago,” noting that Ciara “didn’t know anything about Amanda” when she and West were spending time together.
A separate insider told Us in April that Ciara “cut off both Amanda and West after finding out” about their relationship.
“She’s furious at West but even more hurt by Amanda. ‘Disappointed’ doesn’t even cover it. This is so much more to Ciara than just breaking girl code,” the second source said.
Kyle, for his part, addressed the scandal in early April during a three-part TikTok interview, expressing concern for Amana’s mental health.
“I’m actually really worried about Amanda, if I’m being honest,” he said on April 1, claiming Amanda was being “cyberbullied” while West was gaining new social media followers.
Kyle, 43, then confessed that the situation is a “mental mind-f***” for him as she tries to figure out the exact timeline.
Amanda and West, meanwhile, have been spotted out in New York City in the weeks since their romance made headlines.
Summer House airs on Bravo Tuesdays at 8 p.m. ET.
