The meek shall not inherit Kate Gosselin's heart!

At an Emmys after-party in L.A. on Sunday, the reality mom told a fellow reveler what kind of man she's looking for: "a tough guy, like a cop, to whip my kids into shape," Kate, 35 said. Someone, the divorced Kate Plus 8 star added, "who can handle my situation."

Find out more about Kate's romantic wish-list -- plus what's really going on with her bodyguard Steve Neild -- in this week's Hot Stuff video, as told by Senior Editor Ian Drew and special guest, rock band All Star Weekend.

Also in the roundup: Jake Pavelka wants another go-round on The Bachelor, more details on Tiger Woods' NYC bachelor pad and Kate Bosworth (Alexander Skarsgard's love) makes out with an ex-boyfriend.

Watch the video now (above)!