Victoria Beckham Says She Regrets Messing With Breasts, Talks Motherhood, Marriage and Mistakes

Motherhood, marriage and messing with her boobs! Victoria Beckham has opened up about it all in an open letter to her 18-year-old self.

The fashion mogul and former Spice Girl, whose cleavage has fluctuated over the years, penned the honest and heartfelt project for British Vogue, and addressed plenty of personal details about her life in the limelight. The letter was originally released in September 2016, but was published online on January 4.

From how she deals with body insecurities and being bullied, to managing a career and motherhood, here are some of the most candid pieces of advice she gave herself.

Body Image:

“Learn to embrace your imperfections,” wrote the star. “That is what I want to tell you. Let your skin breathe; wear less make-up. (And don’t ever let that make-up artist shave your eyebrows! The effects last forever.) You will always be addicted to Elnett hairspray but you will tone it down. Less of the 'Hello! I just got stuck in a wind tunnel,' please. And I should probably say, don’t mess with your boobs. All those years I denied it — stupid. A sign of insecurity. Just celebrate what you’ve got.”

Victoria Beckham attending a news conference to make a 'Big Announcement' With Regards To A World Tour And Album at O2 Arena on June 28, 2007 in London, England.
Victoria Beckham attending a news conference to make a 'big announcement' with regards to a world tour and album, at O2 Arena in London on June 28, 2007. MJ Kim/Getty

Love at First Sight:

“Love at first sight does exist,” says Beckham, who has been married to her husband, David Beckham, for 17 years. “It will happen to you in the Manchester United players’ lounge — although you will get a little drunk, so exact details are hazy. While the other football players stand at the bar drinking with their mates, you will see David standing aside with his family. (He’s not even in the first team at this stage — you are the famous one.) And he has such a cute smile. You, too, are close to your family, and you will think how similar he feels to you. He’s going to ask for your number. (He still has the London-to-Manchester plane ticket on which you wrote it.) I’m afraid that most of your first dates will be in car parks, which is not as seedy as it sounds. It is because your manager, Simon Fuller, will warn you, 'Don’t let anyone see you out together or you’ll get hounded.' At the time, you won’t understand why."

Dealing with Fame:

“You are going to be very, very famous, both for the band you form and because of the man you marry, and then later for a fashion business you will launch in your own name. You will get used to fame. Although you cannot set a price on losing privacy, you will learn to use celebrity to your advantage. For good things. For charity. One day you will have the privilege to campaign on behalf of the United Nations to end mother-to-child transmission of HIV and AIDS in Africa.”

Victoria Beckham poses for a photo shoot at the Four Seasons Hotel in Kuta,Bali April 29 1997
Victoria Beckham poses for a photo shoot at the Four Seasons Hotel in Kuta, Bali, April 29, 1997. John Stanton/Wire Image

Marriage:

“Have patience. Bite your tongue. Be supportive. And preserve a bit of mystique. Never let yourself go completely (at least brush your hair, clean your teeth, have a bit of a brow going on because you will always want him to look at you and feel attracted)."

David Beckham and Victoria Beckham attend the British Fashion Awards 2015 at London Coliseum on November 23, 2015 in London, England
David Beckham and Victoria Beckham attend the British Fashion Awards 2015 at London Coliseum on November 23, 2015, in London. Anthony Harvey/Getty

Motherhood:

“Once you are a parent, you worry," said the mom of Brooklyn, 17, Romeo, 14, Cruz, 11, and Harper, 5. "And you are going to have four, so that’s a lot of worry! Mum likes to say, 'You might be 42, but I still worry about you.' Children mean that you will be constantly tired and will develop big bags under your eyes. Your children will always come first, but never forget who you are and what you want to achieve.”

Being Bullied:

“You haven’t forgotten being bullied at school, have you? Do you recall that first day at secondary school? Most children were wearing their own coats and had the latest cool bag, but not you. Kitted out in the full St Mary’s High School uniform, you stood in the freezing playground while other teenagers walking past threw soggy tissues and old Coke cans that they plucked from the puddles. But the thick skin that you developed then is already standing you in good stead, and it will do so for the rest of your life.”

Fashion:

“You are going to have so much fun with your clothes — PVC catsuits; chokers that say absurd things; weird spiky blonde hair. It will never occur to you that you appear ridiculous. You will turn up at awards ceremonies resembling a drag queen. But I look back at you and smile. It will add interest to your life to go from one extreme to another. I love the fact that you will feel free to express yourself. Fashion will take on added stature one day, but try not to be stifled by it. You will learn, as you mature, to swap heels for Stan Smith trainers, minidresses for crisp white shirts. And you will never be one of those people who just roll out of bed. Wear sunglasses a lot. Even inside. Especially at airports. They turn a nothing-outfit into something quite pulled together and cool. You are going to really like Aviators. (Then one day you will develop your own!)”

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