Lena Dunham and pal Amy Schumer had a candid chat for a Lenny Letter interview released on Friday, September 2, but fans and critics of the two women aren’t exactly pleased about their discussion.
The conversation, which was published as part of Dunham’s Lenny Letter newsletter, hit a few problematic potholes, but perhaps the most criticized was the part where Dunham, 30, and Schumer, 35, relived their night at the 2016 Met Ball.
“You and I were literally sitting across from each other at the Met Ball, and it was like a crazy countdown to when we could escape,” the Girls creator said. “You were like, ‘We’re honored to be here. We’re honored to be here.’”
“I left so early. When did you leave?” Schumer asked.
“I attempted to grind my ass on Michael B. Jordan for an additional 20 minutes and then left right after you,” Dunham, who is an outspoken feminist, replied. “I was sitting next to Odell Beckham Jr., and it was so amazing because it was like he looked at me and he determined I was not the shape of a woman by his standards. He was like, ’That’s a marshmallow. That’s a child. That’s a dog.’ It wasn’t mean — he just seemed confused.”
“The vibe was very much like, ‘Do I want to f‑‑k it? Is it wearing a … yep, it’s wearing a tuxedo. I’m going to go back to my cellphone,’” the actress continued. “It was like we were forced to be together, and he literally was scrolling Instagram rather than have to look at a woman in a bow tie. I was like, ‘This should be called the Metropolitan Museum of Getting Rejected by Athletes.’”
Twitter users took issue with the way Dunham seemed to project sexist thoughts onto the New York Giants player, and didn’t hold back in their frustration at the pair’s problematic conversation.
All of Twitter agrees on one thing and one thing alone and that’s that Lena Dunham is terrible
— Juggalocialism (@UweBollocks) September 2, 2016
If Lena Dunham sat next to me at an event I’d stay on Twitter too.
— Olivia A. Cole (@RantingOwl) September 2, 2016
Lena Dunham I’mma let you finish and really Girls is a great show that I love, but please stop thinking of Black men in only sexual terms.
— Sam Sanders (@samsanders) September 2, 2016
lena dunham strikes me as a complete and utter narcissist who thinks her narcissism is progressive cuz she’s not conventionally attractive
— Caroline Conrad (@CPConrad) September 2, 2016
“Men, it’s not your right to talk to women!” – Lena Dunham
“OBJ is a sexist for not hitting on me.” – Lena Dunham also as well
— Feitelberg (@FeitsBarstool) September 2, 2016
Maybe Odell Beckham Jr had watched an episode of Girls and assumed Lena Dunham doesn’t talk to black people
— Petty Friedan (@jneslo) September 2, 2016
Dunham — who has been in a relationship with musician Jack Antonoff since 2012 —tweeted in response to the backlash, telling fans that her anecdote was not meant to be incendiary.
.@OBJ_3 is talented, stylish, seems super awesome and wasn’t into chatting with me at a fancy party.
— Lena Dunham (@lenadunham) September 2, 2016
My story about him was clearly (to me) about my own insecurities as an average-bodied woman at a table of supermodels & athletes.
— Lena Dunham (@lenadunham) September 2, 2016
It’s not an assumption about who he is or an expectation of sexual attention. It’s my sense of humor, which has kept me alive for 30 years.
— Lena Dunham (@lenadunham) September 2, 2016
Glad the outrage machine roars on though, right @amyschumer?
— Lena Dunham (@lenadunham) September 2, 2016
ps I’ll try and dance myself onto @michaelb4jordan if I have the chance, even when I’m a married grandma. I’m a red blooded str8 woman!
— Lena Dunham (@lenadunham) September 2, 2016