Jennifer Lopez spoke about her relationships. Credit: Michael Kovac/Getty Images

She's real! Jennifer Lopez opened up in a new interview, telling British paper The Mirror that she is "not ashamed" of her three divorces and failed past relationships.

The Grammy-nominated singer, 45, was wed to Ojani Noa from 1997 to 1998, to Cris Judd from 2001 to 2002, and to Marc Anthony from 2004 until he filed for divorce in 2012. In the years that she wasn't married, she dated others including Sean "P. Diddy" Combs, former fiancé Ben Affleck, and Casper Smart.

"I have gone from relationship to relationship but, at the end of the day, I am not ashamed of the path I have taken or the lessons I have learned," Lopez told The Mirror. "I am who I am and I am human."

The "Booty" singer, who released her eighth studio album A.K.A. this past June, went on to add that dating is far from her main focus these days. 

"I do what feels right in the moment and right now it feels good to just be on my own and have some 'I love Jennifer' time, which I haven't done a lot in my life," she said. "My friends are constantly trying to set me up but I'm just not there right now. It's not something that's a priority."

The two people who are Lopez's biggest priority right now are her children, twins Max and Emme, 6, whom she shares with Anthony, 46.

"You just want the kids to know they are loved, that's the most important thing," the singer explained. "Being a mother is my number one priority… I am just spending time with myself and my kids. I still believe in love, of course, but the thing you think about most is, 'Who is good enough to come into the life of me and the kids?'"