Christina Aguilera Talks Losing Her Virginity, Not Dating Celebrities, Public Feuds and More on ‘Call Her Daddy’: Revelations

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Christina Aguilera Talks Losing Her Virginity, Not Dating Celebrities, Public Feuds and More on 'Call Her Daddy': Revelations

“Dirrty” details! Christina Aguilera dropped some NSFW confessions about sex and relationships during her first podcast appearance. “Sex is fun! Knowing your body is so important,” the 42-year-old Grammy winner said on the Wednesday, April 5, episode of “Call Her Daddy,” calling vibrators a “game changer” for when she first started “exploring” her sexuality. Earlier in the episode, Aguilera opened up about losing her virginity, revealing that she wasn’t having sex as early as people might think. “It’s so funny that I gave this persona because I probably was the last person to lose my virginity,” she told Alex Cooper. “It was something that was for me, you know what I mean? I guess that’s why my messages went the way they did too because I owned it first, maybe. But it doesn’t matter how it goes down as long as you find your way and your path with being comfortable with yourself.” When Copper pressed for details, the “Beautiful” singer added: “It was later than you would think, given the girl that was doing ‘Dirrty’ and all this stuff. It’s more of a funny thing looking back.” Aguilera hinted that she learned about sexuality through her backup dancers. [sendtonews type="float" key="hIsG4QPOZA-2827115-14453"] “I had certain dancers that were close. You’re traveling a lot and you have accessibility to only certain things. It is what it is,” she said. “A lot of things where I’m like, ‘Maybe I should have realized, he wasn’t looking at me. He wasn’t interested in me. He was looking at him.’ A lot of things where I’m like, ‘Oh, sad!’ I feel bad for my younger self.” Aguilera has been in a long-term relationship with Matthew Rutler since 2014. The twosome started dating following her divorce from Jordan Bratman, with whom she shares son Max, 15. Aguilera and Rutler, 37, who got engaged in 2014, went on to welcome daughter Summer Rain, 8. “There are no wedding plans at the moment,” a source told Us Weekly of the couple last year. “[Christina] and Matt are happy the way they are. They’re one of those couples who don’t need a document to prove their love for each other.” The insider added that the twosome are “very much in love” and “true homebodies.” Scroll through for more from Cooper’s conversation with Aguilera:

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Christina Aguilera Talks Losing Her Virginity, Not Dating Celebrities, Public Feuds and More on 'Call Her Daddy': Revelations

“Dirrty” details! Christina Aguilera dropped some NSFW confessions about sex and relationships during her first podcast appearance. “Sex is fun! Knowing your body is so important,” the 42-year-old Grammy winner said on the Wednesday, April 5, episode of “Call Her Daddy,” calling vibrators a “game changer” for when she first started “exploring” her sexuality. Earlier in the episode, Aguilera opened up about losing her virginity, revealing that she wasn’t having sex as early as people might think. “It’s so funny that I gave this persona because I probably was the last person to lose my virginity,” she told Alex Cooper. “It was something that was for me, you know what I mean? I guess that’s why my messages went the way they did too because I owned it first, maybe. But it doesn’t matter how it goes down as long as you find your way and your path with being comfortable with yourself.” When Copper pressed for details, the “Beautiful” singer added: “It was later than you would think, given the girl that was doing ‘Dirrty’ and all this stuff. It’s more of a funny thing looking back.” Aguilera hinted that she learned about sexuality through her backup dancers. [sendtonews type="float" key="hIsG4QPOZA-2827115-14453"] “I had certain dancers that were close. You’re traveling a lot and you have accessibility to only certain things. It is what it is,” she said. “A lot of things where I’m like, ‘Maybe I should have realized, he wasn’t looking at me. He wasn’t interested in me. He was looking at him.’ A lot of things where I’m like, ‘Oh, sad!’ I feel bad for my younger self.” Aguilera has been in a long-term relationship with Matthew Rutler since 2014. The twosome started dating following her divorce from Jordan Bratman, with whom she shares son Max, 15. Aguilera and Rutler, 37, who got engaged in 2014, went on to welcome daughter Summer Rain, 8. “There are no wedding plans at the moment,” a source told Us Weekly of the couple last year. “[Christina] and Matt are happy the way they are. They’re one of those couples who don’t need a document to prove their love for each other.” The insider added that the twosome are “very much in love” and “true homebodies.” Scroll through for more from Cooper’s conversation with Aguilera:

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Abusive Relationships

Aguilera has been candid over the years about witnessing her parents’ allegedly abusive relationship. “I’m so adamant with my daughter, I’m just like, ‘First time somebody ever hits you, the first time somebody ever makes you feel not right about yourself [get out].’ I’m so protective mama bear,” she explained.

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Why She Doesn’t Date in the Business

“I’ve had my experiences, [but] my life is hectic enough, and this is a very narcissistic industry. My anxieties couldn’t maybe take somebody that did the exact same thing I did. I know how this goes. I’m too vulnerable for this,” she said. “I’m too sensitive to be so paranoid. … I’ve definitely, like, not been into the celebrity thing.”

When asked whether she was ever pressured into getting into a relationship for PR, Aguilera responded: “It’s annoying more than anything else. I don’t want to be corny, but it really is to me about intentions. If it doesn’t feel right to me, I can’t do it. I have a really hard time forcing myself. … I like more, like, the guys next door. … If it’s not real to me and authentic, I can’t do it. I can’t force something as personal as that.”

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Celebrity Feuds

Aguilera’s past with Pink resurfaced earlier this year after the “Raise Your Glass” singer spoke about their “silly feud” on set of the “Lady Marmalade” music video.

“It wasn’t very fun to make,” Pink told BuzzFeed UK in February. “I’m all about fun and it was, like, a lot of fuss and there were some personalities. [Lil] Kim and Mya were nice!”

On “Call Her Daddy,” Aguilera noted that she’s had people “poke” or “bait” her in the past. “I want peaceful energy, peaceful vibes,” she said. “I don’t need to be talking about things that happened decades ago. Let’s grow up, let’s embrace. … I just don’t have time for the petty bulls—t.”

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NSFW Bedroom Tricks

“Sexuality is a very specific thing so, like, what one guy might like, another one doesn’t, there are some guys that don’t like their balls being touched … and there are some guys that like brutal things happening to them — ​there’s a lot of different levels, that’s why it's really important to be with a partner where you can really explore,” Aguilera said as she opened up about her blow job tip. “There is something to be said after you put in the hard work … I think swallowing is really, you know, a good thing … and it's got a lot of protein.”

When asked about her favorite sex positions, Aguilera added that it “depends on the mood” and time of day. The musician also revealed that she’s a member of the mile high club, revealing that she’s had sex on international flights.