Love Is Blind’s Raven Breaks Down Complete Timeline of SK’s Alleged Cheating, Claims He’s Still Trying to Reunite: ‘Viall Files’ Takeaways

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Love Is Blind's Raven Breaks Down Complete Timeline of SK's Alleged Cheating, Claims He’s Still Trying to Reunite: 'Viall Files' Takeaways

Still trying to piece together what went down between Raven Ross and Sikiru “SK” Alagbada in between Love Is Blind season 3 and After the Altar? Us too. The Pilates instructor, 30, shared shocking new details of her relationship with SK, 34, on the Thursday, February 16, episode of the “Viall Files” podcast. As some fans may recall, Raven and SK broke up on the season 3 finale of Love Is Blind, which aired in November 2022, but taped in June 2021. The twosome went on to get back together before their relationship blew up last Thanksgiving when two women came forward claiming to have relationships with SK. According to Raven, SK claimed he only met the first woman in person once, but the second woman was an ex-girlfriend who he was allegedly planning trips with during their second engagement. “I think a lot of women go through this,” Raven told Nick Viall. “I was so confused because my intention and my actions were so aligned with how I felt. I was all in — I want to marry this person, I’m so loyal, I want to serve him, I want to make sure he’s comfortable in a safe space and that we’re in a great partnership together. I thought he was on the same page as me. … I was thinking one thing but then something else was before my eyes and it would make me so confused.” SK, for his part, has not responded to Us Weekly’s requests for comment through Netflix or his personal rep. He previously denied cheating on Raven in November 2022 and claimed he had hired a lawyer to fight the accusations. “While we’re going through this, there was so much manipulation and gaslighting. He really was just worried about saving his career and his face,” she claimed. “And he wanted to get lawyers involved to, like, make these claims go away so it wouldn’t look bad for him. I was there at home listening to him on the phone with lawyers all day every day. He was like, 'This is for my career.’ That’s literally what he said all the time.” SK had told Raven that the second woman was extorting him, claiming she wouldn’t remove her TikToks unless he paid her $300,000. Raven also alleged that SK asked her to lie to fans about the situation. [jwplayer bPHpHXek-zhNYySv2] “The hardest part of this was how he responded to all of it. Basically, by the end of it, I kept saying, ‘What do you want me to do? I want to help you, I love you, but what do you want me to do?' And basically, his answer was for me to say that we weren’t dating the whole time,” she claimed. “And that was just the most horrible thing.” When asked about “red flags” she may have ignored, Raven admitted there were many — including SK sending her a photo of another woman on Instagram — and questions about whether he was attracted to her. “There was always this trend — and it’s hard because this is a part that I’m still processing, it’s probably the ego inside of me — of him being really hard on the way that I looked. It got to the point, in August actually, that I was so upset. We had basically lived together the entire summer, we had our apartment and anything I would wear, it was just always something,” she claimed. “And then sending the picture [of another woman on Instagram] — it was always these girls that looked nothing like me. … I was so sad, and I even started to say to him, ‘You don’t really like me, you don’t like the way that I look.’ … And then when all of these girls came out and more of the critics were like, ‘Raven, he doesn’t even like girls that look like you. He never liked you to begin with.’ I’m like, ‘Little do y’all know that was something I was bringing up.’ … In the end, he basically admitted it [and] said, ‘You’re not my type. I’m not attracted to you.’” Scroll through for Raven’s claims explained chronologically:

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Love Is Blind's Raven Breaks Down Complete Timeline of SK's Alleged Cheating, Claims He’s Still Trying to Reunite: 'Viall Files' Takeaways

Still trying to piece together what went down between Raven Ross and Sikiru “SK” Alagbada in between Love Is Blind season 3 and After the Altar? Us too. The Pilates instructor, 30, shared shocking new details of her relationship with SK, 34, on the Thursday, February 16, episode of the “Viall Files” podcast. As some fans may recall, Raven and SK broke up on the season 3 finale of Love Is Blind, which aired in November 2022, but taped in June 2021. The twosome went on to get back together before their relationship blew up last Thanksgiving when two women came forward claiming to have relationships with SK. According to Raven, SK claimed he only met the first woman in person once, but the second woman was an ex-girlfriend who he was allegedly planning trips with during their second engagement. “I think a lot of women go through this,” Raven told Nick Viall. “I was so confused because my intention and my actions were so aligned with how I felt. I was all in — I want to marry this person, I’m so loyal, I want to serve him, I want to make sure he’s comfortable in a safe space and that we’re in a great partnership together. I thought he was on the same page as me. … I was thinking one thing but then something else was before my eyes and it would make me so confused.” SK, for his part, has not responded to Us Weekly’s requests for comment through Netflix or his personal rep. He previously denied cheating on Raven in November 2022 and claimed he had hired a lawyer to fight the accusations. “While we’re going through this, there was so much manipulation and gaslighting. He really was just worried about saving his career and his face,” she claimed. “And he wanted to get lawyers involved to, like, make these claims go away so it wouldn’t look bad for him. I was there at home listening to him on the phone with lawyers all day every day. He was like, 'This is for my career.’ That’s literally what he said all the time.” SK had told Raven that the second woman was extorting him, claiming she wouldn’t remove her TikToks unless he paid her $300,000. Raven also alleged that SK asked her to lie to fans about the situation. [jwplayer bPHpHXek-zhNYySv2] “The hardest part of this was how he responded to all of it. Basically, by the end of it, I kept saying, ‘What do you want me to do? I want to help you, I love you, but what do you want me to do?' And basically, his answer was for me to say that we weren’t dating the whole time,” she claimed. “And that was just the most horrible thing.” When asked about “red flags” she may have ignored, Raven admitted there were many — including SK sending her a photo of another woman on Instagram — and questions about whether he was attracted to her. “There was always this trend — and it’s hard because this is a part that I’m still processing, it’s probably the ego inside of me — of him being really hard on the way that I looked. It got to the point, in August actually, that I was so upset. We had basically lived together the entire summer, we had our apartment and anything I would wear, it was just always something,” she claimed. “And then sending the picture [of another woman on Instagram] — it was always these girls that looked nothing like me. … I was so sad, and I even started to say to him, ‘You don’t really like me, you don’t like the way that I look.’ … And then when all of these girls came out and more of the critics were like, ‘Raven, he doesn’t even like girls that look like you. He never liked you to begin with.’ I’m like, ‘Little do y’all know that was something I was bringing up.’ … In the end, he basically admitted it [and] said, ‘You’re not my type. I’m not attracted to you.’” Scroll through for Raven’s claims explained chronologically:

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July 2021

After filming wrapped on the initial season during summer 2021, Raven recalled SK going to Europe. The twosome were not together at the time as he had just said “no” at the altar. While Raven claimed that he invited her to join him on the trip as they were still talking daily, she later found out that one of the women he allegedly cheated with was on the vacation.

“Do you think he knew you were too busy to say yes?” Nick asked about the invites to which Raven responded: “100 percent.”

“They extended their trip, stayed together in London. … We weren’t together. It was not cheating, but it was lying,” she said, adding that she wishes SK told her at the time that his ex (the second woman to drop the allegations on TikTok) would be there.

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February 2022

“I go to San Fransisco — I think that was my first time [going to visit him at school] — we’re serious, but we’re being realistic. We’re not, like, official. … We don’t move in together until, like, July,” she recalled. “He had gone to school, I was trying to take a shower, I was looking for a towel. I open the cabinet under the sink and there’s all this stuff shoved in there and I see a towel and I pull the towel out. … There’s makeup all over the towel and hair all over the towel. I was like, ‘That’s weird.’ … But I knew in my head, we were not officially dating.”

When she confronted him about it at the time, he hesitated before he told her it was the remnants of a turmeric face mask. “I should’ve known [then] this is someone who will lie through his teeth to try to make you believe it based on who he knows you think you’re with,” she said. “Of course, I didn’t believe it, but I wanted to believe it.”

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March 2022

The first woman to come forward claiming SK allegedly had a relationship with her was a woman he met on a dating app in California. Raven recalled seeing text messages that took place in March 2022 when SK went in Austin, claiming he was sending both women the same updates from his trip.

“It was literally verbatim. The same selfie. The same words,” she claimed.

Raven didn’t see these messages until the woman shared them via TikTok months later. She told Nick that he only owned up to the situation “a little” when she confronted him (before the second woman had come forward) and SK insisted that he only saw her in person once.

“This is a thread throughout it. Anytime there would be a moment like this, there would always be hesitation,” she said. “He didn’t answer the phone for a while … for an hour or two.”

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April 2022

Raven said that she believed the twosome were “solid” by her 30th birthday. As a result, she brought SK to New Orleans, where they stayed with her mom. “[I was] ready to do it right outside of Love Is Blind,” she noted.

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May 2022

Less than a month later, Raven claims he was on a trip with the second woman in Mexico.

“They had all gone on a couples’ trip a week after him and I went on my birthday trip to New Orleans,” she said. “And literally the next weekend, [he] went to Cabo with her [and] told me he was in school the whole time.”

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June 2022

All three “successful” couples from Love Is Blind season 3 — Raven and SK, Alexa Alfia and Brennon Lemieux and Colleen Reed and Matt Bolton — went on their own trip to Mexico.

“He told me, ‘I’ve never been to Mexico before,’” she alleged.

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August 2022

Fans watched SK propose again on After the Altar. She told the former Bachelor that the engagement went down in August 2022 — when he was allegedly in the middle of planning a trip to Miami with the second woman.

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October 2022

Raven claimed that SK called producers and begged them not to include their second proposal.

“Apparently after we got engaged, he backtracked, went back to producers and started, like, pleading with them to take it out,” Raven claimed. “[Producers said], ‘We thought you knew, and we thought you guys were breaking up.’ … We were filming the reunion and he went off the grid, remember? No one could find him, no one could get a hold of him, everyone was freaking out. Come to find out, he locked himself in a van with one of the producers and was like, ‘You gotta take the engagement out. You gotta take the engagement out.’”

She said he came back to the hotel “hours later” and was being “so weird.”

“We get in the biggest fight, he tells me he was sad about his mom or something,” she alleged. “I had no idea until the producer called me after all of this — after everything came out. And she was like, ‘I thought you knew he asked to take the engagement out.’ How would I know that?”

Raven didn’t find out about his alleged talks with producers until a month later. She also claimed in November 2022 that she found a “happy birthday” text SK sent to the second woman in October 2022, 10 days before Love Is Blind started streaming.

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November 2022

“By the time the second girl came out on TikTok, he was already back home. So we were together at this point, physically at our apartment in Dallas. And [we] were just sitting in our kitchen and both of our phones start going crazy,” Raven recalled, adding that he was being silent. “Because he does that thing where he’s got to ghost for a little bit and get the lies together.”

Raven noted that the second woman’s claims were “far more damaging” than the first because of their alleged past. “So he was able to use that to his advantage because a lot of the stuff she put in there was from 2018 [and] 2019,” she said.

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November 2022

Less than a week later, the second woman posted another video with alleged texts and photos from allegedly more recent encounters.

“My heart just sank,” she recalled. “That point was the first time when I started using the words, ‘We’re about to be done. You’re pushing way past my limit, because this is a boldfaced lie and you knew we were together at that point, you can’t argue it.’”

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February 2023

Raven claimed that she spoke to SK about two weeks as he continues to reach out.

“He reached out to me. … He did say, ‘I was so worried about myself and protecting myself that I didn’t really care about how you were feeling.’ He acknowledged that for the first time, which was nice to hear but doesn’t really change anything,” she said. “He apologized, and of course, he was like, ‘I’d love to work on things.’”

Raven confirmed to Us earlier this month that she’s seeing someone else and the door is closed on a reconciliation with SK.