Vanderpump Rules’ Kristen Doute and Ariana Madix’s Ups and Downs: From Miami Girl to #TeamAriana

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Vanderpump Rules' Kristen Doute and Ariana Madix's Ups and Downs: From Miami Girl to #TeamAriana

From feud to friendship! Kristen Doute and Ariana Madix smoothed over their bumpy past after years of bad blood on Bravo. The former Vanderpump Rules costars were at odds throughout the early seasons of the show, which premiered in 2013, after Doute suspected then-boyfriend Tom Sandoval of cheating on her with Madix before their breakup. The Missouri native moved on with Madix in 2014 — which didn't sit well with Doute. The exes continued working together at Lisa Vanderpump's restaurant SUR, but Doute was often quick to stoke drama. During season 3, she connected with a woman who claimed she hooked up with Sandoval in Miami while he was still dating Madix and helped bring her to SUR. At the time, the Fancy AF Cocktails authors walked out of the restaurant but were brought back by their boss. "I almost wish I didn't [leave]. The reason why we left is because we felt like production was pulling this whole thing. We were, like, 'Oh, so random people just show up now,'" Madix exclusively told Us Weekly in October 2021. "I do regret, I guess, just not fully calling out the whole real story, like, on camera and staying there." [jwplayer 10Mes1BH-zhNYySv2] With the confrontation firmly in the past, Madix shared an update on where she stood with Doute. "We've been great since we [decided to be friends]," she explained. The path to friendship wasn't easy, with the pair bickering about their dating lives, sketch comedy and more on the hit reality series. In her 2020 book, He's Making You Crazy, Doute revealed that she had forgiven her ex and Madix for their past mistakes. "I made a choice to let everything go, because whether or not I thought those rumors about an illicit rendezvous or two behind my back had been true or not, it didn't matter anymore," she wrote. "A girl can't actually steal someone's boyfriend. He made a free-willed choice to leave me, and a free-willed choice to be with her. I needed to let them be happy." Us confirmed in March 2023 that Sandoval and Madix had split after nearly 10 years together after his affair with costar Raquel Leviss. While she was no longer part of the Pump Rules cast — Doute was axed from the series in 2020 along with OG star Stassi Schroeder and two more costars — the Bravo alum was vocal about supporting Madix through the scandal. "I don't know why I feel like I need to make this clear, but there's so many people right now wondering if this is making me happy," she told fans in an Instagram Story video as the controversy made headlines. "And you guys, Ariana and I've been really good friends for many, many years now. So, I am team Ariana — all day, every day. That's what's up." Both Sandoval and Leviss issued public apologies for their illicit relationship, but Madix did not immediately address the situation. During a March 2023 episode of her podcast, Doute gave an update on how her pal was coping. "She's not doing well. She's numb and she’s sad and she doesn’t want to hear about anything anymore," she said on "Sex, Love and What Else Matters" at the time. "She's like, 'What does it matter? I don't want to hear any more rumors.' We were telling her some more rumors that were coming up yesterday and she's like, 'What does it matter? I just don't need to know anymore. It's just going to make me feel worse.'" Doute went on to claim that Madix apologized to her for being "toxic" in the past when it came to their drama with Sandoval. "For her to apologize to me? Because she didn't listen to me or because of the way their relationship started?" she said. "No. That's why I took to social media almost immediately because I was so tired of people saying, 'Oh, my God, this is Ariana's karma.'" Scroll down for an in-depth look at Doute and Madix's rocky history:

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2014

After Sandoval and Doute called it quits, he quickly moved on with Madix, prompting Doute to wonder whether the pair had hooked up before her split from Sandoval. He eventually confessed to kissing Madix while still dating Doute.

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2015

Tension between Doute and Madix reached an all-time high when the former SURver claimed Sandoval cheated on Madix in Miami. During season 3, Doute ambushed her ex at SUR with the woman he allegedly hooked up with — a.k.a. "Miami Girl" — and chaos erupted at the restaurant.

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2016

Madix made it clear she wasn't interested in feuding with Doute by cutting off their communication. "It's a healthy thing to set boundaries for yourself," she told Life & Style at the time. "I just don't want to be around somebody who has that capability to plot against other people."

Doute apologized for the "Miami Girl" debacle while Bravo cameras were rolling, but Madix wasn't buying it. "It's just self-serving manipulation," she claimed.

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2018

The twosome seemingly put their rocky history behind them, with Doute joking to Us that it was "confusing" how much she enjoyed Madix's company. "I really love Ariana. ... We're like tweeting each other now. She's unblocked me, that's a step in the right direction," Doute exclusively revealed. "There's an occasional group text and hanging out in group situations."

The T-shirt designer clarified: "We're like buddies, but I wouldn't say friends yet. But I'm not going to like give her a call and be like, 'How are your and Tom's sex life? Need some advice?' No. I think where we're at is a pretty good playing field."

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2020

Shortly before she was fired from Pump Rules for past racist behavior, Doute hinted that there were more positive moments to her relationship with Madix than fans saw. "I feel like they didn't really ever focus on how Ariana and I actually made up, and there was such a temperature change on Vanderpump Rules when that happened. ... I wish that they would have shown more of that," she told the Washington Post.

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2021

While reflecting on her drama with Doute, the bartender confessed to Us that she wishes she handled the "Miami Girl" confrontation differently. "I almost wish I didn't [leave]. ... I do regret, I guess, just not fully calling out the whole real story, like, on camera and staying there," she said.

However, Madix had no regrets about later pursuing a friendship with Doute, telling Us, "We've been great since we made that decision."

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2023

When news broke of Sandoval's affair with Leviss, Doute was one of the first to throw her support fully behind Madix. "I stan Ariana. This is in real-time. I love you so much," she said in an Instagram Story video as she gave Madix a hug. "I love you more than anything. You're my girl."

Doute went into further detail about the "Scandoval" on her "Sex, Love and What Else Matters" podcast, revealing that she was with Madix when she discovered NSFW footage of Leviss on Sandoval's phone. "She's not doing well," Doute said of her friend. "She's numb and she's sad and she doesn't want to hear about anything anymore."

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2023

Doute revealed on the "Viall Files" podcast that Madix "specifically" asked her to film a season 10 scene amid her breakup with Sandoval. "I told her, 'I have nothing to gain from this. I, in fact, will probably look like an opportunist or thirsty,'" she said. "I specifically said to her, 'This has nothing to do with the network, the production, the ratings, whatever. What do you need? Because you've also now had to talk about this a million times with so many people, on and off camera. So if this is just one more time you don't wanna do that, I don't need to do it.' She wanted me to, so I did."