Scott Disick’s Feelings About Kourtney Kardashian’s Relationship With Travis Barker: Everything We Know

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Scott Disick’s Feelings About Kourtney Kardashian’s Relationship With Travis Barker: Everything We Know

It’s safe to say Scott Disick doesn’t exactly ship Kravis. Kourtney Kardashian’s ex is making headlines for allegedly throwing shade at her romance with Travis Barker. The eldest sibling of the Kardashian-Jenner family dated Disick on and off for a decade until they called it quits during the summer of 2015. The pair share three kids: Mason (born in 2009), Penelope (2012) and Reign (2014). While they went on to date other people, it was a common theme on Keeping Up With the Kardashians that her family hoped the Poosh founder and the Talentless designer would find their way back to each other. However, during the June 2021 KUWTK reunion episode, she revealed that they hadn’t been intimate since their split. “People cannot believe that, but we have not,” Kardashian told Andy Cohen. “For real.” Disick added, "How annoying." The mother of three went on to explain why she ended their relationship: “The infidelity, I only knew about it at the end, so I think the substance abuse was the dealbreaker.” [sendtonews type="float" key="L5G5jtNNDf-2834877-14453"] Disick replied at the time: “I don’t want to make any excuses for my behavior. I definitely wouldn’t have done these things sober, but it was all wrong. I just thought it was normal, to be honest.” After KUWTK wrapped in early 2021, Kardashian went public with her relationship with Barker, whom she secretly started seeing in late 2020. Disick, for his part, had been linked to Amelia Gray Hamlin since October 2020 after ending his three-year relationship with Sofia Richie. A source previously told Us Weekly that “things haven’t been the same” for Disick and the famous family “since KUWTK stopped filming and Kourtney and Travis began dating.” Another insider revealed that the couple’s hot and heavy romance shows no signs of slowing down. “Their relationship has gotten more serious over the past two months,” the source said in April 2021. “They love each other very much and their chemistry is off the charts.” Per a third source, Kardashian is “really happy with Travis and she’s gotten a lot of approval on him as well. He gets her and they have fun.” But does she have Disick’s approval? Scroll through for everything we know about his feelings regarding Kardashian’s romance with Barker:

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Scott Disick’s Feelings About Kourtney Kardashian’s Relationship With Travis Barker: Everything We Know

It’s safe to say Scott Disick doesn’t exactly ship Kravis. Kourtney Kardashian’s ex is making headlines for allegedly throwing shade at her romance with Travis Barker. The eldest sibling of the Kardashian-Jenner family dated Disick on and off for a decade until they called it quits during the summer of 2015. The pair share three kids: Mason (born in 2009), Penelope (2012) and Reign (2014). While they went on to date other people, it was a common theme on Keeping Up With the Kardashians that her family hoped the Poosh founder and the Talentless designer would find their way back to each other. However, during the June 2021 KUWTK reunion episode, she revealed that they hadn’t been intimate since their split. “People cannot believe that, but we have not,” Kardashian told Andy Cohen. “For real.” Disick added, "How annoying." The mother of three went on to explain why she ended their relationship: “The infidelity, I only knew about it at the end, so I think the substance abuse was the dealbreaker.” [sendtonews type="float" key="L5G5jtNNDf-2834877-14453"] Disick replied at the time: “I don’t want to make any excuses for my behavior. I definitely wouldn’t have done these things sober, but it was all wrong. I just thought it was normal, to be honest.” After KUWTK wrapped in early 2021, Kardashian went public with her relationship with Barker, whom she secretly started seeing in late 2020. Disick, for his part, had been linked to Amelia Gray Hamlin since October 2020 after ending his three-year relationship with Sofia Richie. A source previously told Us Weekly that “things haven’t been the same” for Disick and the famous family “since KUWTK stopped filming and Kourtney and Travis began dating.” Another insider revealed that the couple’s hot and heavy romance shows no signs of slowing down. “Their relationship has gotten more serious over the past two months,” the source said in April 2021. “They love each other very much and their chemistry is off the charts.” Per a third source, Kardashian is “really happy with Travis and she’s gotten a lot of approval on him as well. He gets her and they have fun.” But does she have Disick’s approval? Scroll through for everything we know about his feelings regarding Kardashian’s romance with Barker:

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Still Has the Upper Hand?

A source told Us in February 2021 that Disick is “OK” with the romance — because he “believes he still has the upper hand being the kids’ father.” The insider added at the time that Disick and Kardashian have “an incredibly special bond that no one can ever come between” with “history … and love for each other can’t be touched by anyone else, and they both know that."

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Strained Relationship

According to an insider, Disick started feeling distance from the Kardashians after wrapping KUWTK in early 2021.

“Scott and Kourtney’s relationship is definitely strained,” the source said in May 2021. “They don’t communicate much unless it has to do with their kids.”

The source added, “Scott feels not just disconnected from Kourtney, but also all the Kardashians. This was his biggest fear — getting out of touch with his ‘family,’ and now him being on the outskirts with Kourtney is affecting him completely.”

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In Scott’s Words

Disick broke his silence on Kardashian’s relationship with Barker during the June 2021 KUWTK reunion, telling Cohen that he wants her to be happy.

“I think if you really love somebody, right, you want them to be happy no matter what. So I do give her a blessing to be happy,” he said before throwing shade at Kardashian’s ex Younes Bendjima when the Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen host suggested that Disick gets “really upset when Kourtney is linked to other guys.”

Disick responded, “Me? No. I just want to kill them. … Well, the last guy. Let’s all be honest here.”

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The Amelia Shade

Barker threw shade at Disick’s lady love after a social media account suggested the musician, the Flip It Like Disick alum, Kardashian and Hamlin had dinner together in May 2021.

“It’s so odd to me. Like, what does a 2001 baby have to do [with] these grown ass people? I know that dinner was awkward as hell,” one social media user commented. Days later, Us confirmed the drummer’s official social media account “liked” the comment.

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The Younes DM

After Kardashian and Barker’s PDA-filled trip to Italy, Disick allegedly messaged Bendjima to throw shade.

“Yo is this chick ok!????? Brooo like what is this. In the middle of Italy,” he allegedly DMed the former boxer in August 2021.

Bendjima, who shared the alleged exchange via Instagram Stories, replied, “Don’t matter to me as long as she’s happy. PS: i aint your bro.”

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The DM Aftermath

“Scott was definitely embarrassed by Younes sharing his DM,” a source told Us in September 2021. “He didn’t realize when he messaged him that that would happen. He DMed him when he was in a heated moment and was just looking for him to react the same way being that they both dated Kourtney.”

The source added that Disick is “sick of seeing photos of them splashed everywhere” and he “doesn’t think she should be showing off too much PDA because of their rated-R behavior,” which their kids can easily see online.

In April 2022, Kourtney revealed that Disick reached out to her after the DM drama.

"When I was in Italy with Travis on our summer vacation, I woke up to a text from Scott saying, 'I am so sorry. I DMed your ex-boyfriend who I can't stand,'" the Poosh founder recalled on The Kardashians. "Then I wrote him, 'This is despicable. Your actions need to match up with you wanting to be a part of this and act like it."

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Their Current Status

According to an insider, Disick and Kardashian are more “strained” than ever as of September 2021. “What’s really got him riled up is the effect Travis and Kourtney’s relationship is having on his relationship with Kourtney,” the source said. “He’s trying to be the best parent he can be for their kids and make it work coparenting, but he’s having problems now with Kourtney.”

That same month, another insider told Us that “outside of coparenting, Scott and Kourtney’s relationship is nonexistent."

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The Engagement Reaction

After news broke in October 2021 that Barker and Kourtney are engaged, a source told Us that Disick is “furious.”

“He knew it was possible, but is very jealous of Kourtney and Travis’ relationship,” the source said. “Scott still thinks that they could call things off before the wedding.”

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Still Good With the Fam?

Disick made headlines in late September 2021 for unfollowing Kourtney — and all of her family members — on social media. The following month, however, he scored an invite to watch Kim Kardashian on Saturday Night Live alongside Khloé Kardashian and Kris Jenner.

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Rising Tensions

Despite being spotted together at Reign's baseball game in March 2022, a source exclusively told Us that Disick "despises" Barker. The hangout was "a rare occasion," per the insider, and Disick usually "can't stand being around" the musician unless the kids are involved.

"It's going to take time for him to fully accept Travis is The One for her," the source said of the Poosh founder, who Disick still views as being "the one that got away."

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Will He Attend Kardashian and Barker's Wedding?

A source told Us in March 2022 that Disick may want to "stay far away from witnessing” his ex's nuptials, adding, "It would definitely be awkward if Scott was at the wedding.“ However, if the ceremony is filmed for Kardashian-Jenner family's Hulu series, The Kardashians, then he might there," the source said.

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Learning to Adjust

During The Kardashians premiere, Disick admitted that he felt isolated after not being invited to a family event because of Kourtney and Barker.

"Feeling left out and not being told anything is super hurtful — especially when I don't have another family to go to. I rather be around them and be around my family than not at all," he explained to Khloé during the April 2022 episode, noting that he was "lonely" amid the changes. "Honestly I think for the first time in my life it is finally starting to change. Now that Kourtney has her life with Travis, as hard as it is, it does give me a place to finally be able to move on."

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Like a Loss

"It was a huge adjustment losing Kourtney romantically, but now it has become a huge adjustment losing her as sort of a best friend. Now we are really more coparents. I would say it is probably one of the more difficult things in my life," he told cameras during an episode of The Kardashians in April 2022. "Kourtney has all [the] right to despise me for the way I treated her because it was horrible. Like that wouldn't go on today for a day. But it went on for years."

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Absent From Kravis' Italian Nuptials

Disick did not attend his ex's Italian wedding to Barker in May 2022, sharing a photo flying to an undisclosed beach instead. He reunited with his and Kardashian's three children after they came home from celebrating their mom and stepdad's ceremony. “Got my crew with me," Disick captioned a pic of the kids.

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'Still Not Totally Comfortable' With Kardashian and Barker's Marriage

Disick chose to skip the Kardashian-Jenner family's 2023 Easter celebrations because it's "still not totally comfortable for Scott to spend an entire weekend with Kourtney and Travis," a source exclusively told Us in April 2023. "As much as he's accepted the fact that they're done for good, it's challenging at times spending time with them as a married couple particularly at Kris [Jenner]’s house in such close quarters.”

He is, however, “still really close with all of them and has a great coparenting relationship with Kourtney ... as far as spending every holiday together like they did before she was with Travis, that isn't going to happen as often as it used to,” the insider noted. “Things are just different, plain and simple."

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Reaching Out About Their Baby News

After Kardashian confirmed in June 2023 that she is expecting her first child with Barker, a source exclusively told Us about Disick's reaction. 

"Scott knows this is what Kourtney has wanted for a long time and as bittersweet as it was, he reached out to congratulate her and Travis," the insider shared. "Scott has come a long way from where he was when Kourtney and Travis first started dating. Most people know it was a tough realization for him to accept and it took quite a while to get there."