Eva Amurri and Kyle Martino’s Best Quotes About Their Split and Coparenting: ‘All We Can Do Is Our Best’

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Eva Amurri and Kyle Martino's Best Quotes About Their Split and Coparenting: 'All We Can Do Is Our Best'

Making it work! Eva Amurri and Kyle Martino announced their divorce in November 2019 after eight years of marriage and have been coparenting their little ones ever since. The former couple welcomed their daughter, Marlowe, in 2014, followed by their son, Major, two years later. The actress revealed she was pregnant with their third child two months before her split from the former professional soccer player. “Our family is ecstatic to share this ‘collab’ that has been brewing now for several months!” the Undateable alum wrote via Instagram at the time. “As always, thank you so much for your ongoing support for our family, it really does mean the world. xoxo The Martinos.” Susan Sarandon’s daughter gave birth to her and Martino’s second son, Mateo, in March 2020, one month after finalizing their divorce. [jwplayer 4FKxneJF-zhNYySv2] “He arrived safely & sweetly at home, March 13th at 3:58pm, weighing 7 lbs 11 oz and 21 inches long,” the New York native wrote in her weekly newsletter for her website, Happily Eva After, at the time. “Our hearts are so full! Thank you for the well wishes, and I look forward to sharing more soon!” The blogger went on to write via Instagram the following day: “Our sweet little boy came Earthside yesterday, peacefully at Home. Birth was bright, fast & beautiful, and we are all SO in love.” She celebrated the newborn’s first week of life with a close-up shot of her baby boy. “Mateo is eating like a champ, sleeping for 3-4 hour stretches, crying, pooping, hiccuping, and stealing our hearts with his big blue eyes," Amurri wrote. "I knew we would love him deeply, but I didn’t know how quickly life would be unimaginable without him. Soaking in the impermanence of all things Newborn, sniffing a lot of baby aroma, and thanking my lucky stars for this gift of a boy.” Keep scrolling to read Amurri and Martino’s quotes about their breakup and their brood, from holidays to friendship rings. [podcast_block]

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Eva Amurri and Kyle Martino's Best Quotes About Their Split and Coparenting: 'All We Can Do Is Our Best'

Making it work! Eva Amurri and Kyle Martino announced their divorce in November 2019 after eight years of marriage and have been coparenting their little ones ever since. The former couple welcomed their daughter, Marlowe, in 2014, followed by their son, Major, two years later. The actress revealed she was pregnant with their third child two months before her split from the former professional soccer player. “Our family is ecstatic to share this ‘collab’ that has been brewing now for several months!” the Undateable alum wrote via Instagram at the time. “As always, thank you so much for your ongoing support for our family, it really does mean the world. xoxo The Martinos.” Susan Sarandon’s daughter gave birth to her and Martino’s second son, Mateo, in March 2020, one month after finalizing their divorce. [jwplayer 4FKxneJF-zhNYySv2] “He arrived safely & sweetly at home, March 13th at 3:58pm, weighing 7 lbs 11 oz and 21 inches long,” the New York native wrote in her weekly newsletter for her website, Happily Eva After, at the time. “Our hearts are so full! Thank you for the well wishes, and I look forward to sharing more soon!” The blogger went on to write via Instagram the following day: “Our sweet little boy came Earthside yesterday, peacefully at Home. Birth was bright, fast & beautiful, and we are all SO in love.” She celebrated the newborn’s first week of life with a close-up shot of her baby boy. “Mateo is eating like a champ, sleeping for 3-4 hour stretches, crying, pooping, hiccuping, and stealing our hearts with his big blue eyes," Amurri wrote. "I knew we would love him deeply, but I didn’t know how quickly life would be unimaginable without him. Soaking in the impermanence of all things Newborn, sniffing a lot of baby aroma, and thanking my lucky stars for this gift of a boy.” Keep scrolling to read Amurri and Martino’s quotes about their breakup and their brood, from holidays to friendship rings. [podcast_block]

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November 2019

"We are committed to, and excited about, raising our three beautiful children as close friends and deep partners, and we have the utmost respect for one another," the former couple wrote in a joint statement.

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November 2019

The actress wore a friendship ring that same month shortly after her ex-husband moved out of their home. "Def rocking this gorgeous friendship ring Kyle gave me on our anniversary this year to commemorate our 8 year marriage," she wrote.

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November 2019

She and the NBC sports analyst spent Thanksgiving together. "We pretty much had the Thanksgiving from Hell (Tummy bug extraordinaire) but the best day today,” Amurri captioned a family photo. “All five of us! The tree is decorated and the kids even picked out which half of the ornaments are going to their tree at Daddy’s house. Feeling lots of modern love this holiday season."

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December 2019

They had a "very tough" time telling their kids about their divorce. "This is one of the hardest monologues I have ever had to get through,” she blogged at the time. “Saying it was an out of body experience, and I had tears coming down my face the entire time. Kyle took half and I took half of this speech, and we practiced ahead of time together."

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December 2019

Amurri and Martino had an "awesome" time celebrating Christmas together.

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January 2020

"Kyle and I have now been living in separate, permanent residences since early November," the Brown University graduate wrote in a blog post. "Kyle had the kids for the first time at his apartment right around the holidays. It was extremely emotional for me to drop them off — not because they hadn’t spent time with just him before (they had, of course), but because it seemed like such a big milestone in the life of our divorce. That first weekend 'away' from me felt so big to me — sad and strange.”

She added, "Kyle helped me through — sending me photos and videos of the kids nonstop. I sobbed in the car on the drive home, and texted some girlfriends some very dramatic things about my heart being left behind in Brooklyn. LOL.”

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February 2020

Martino wished his ex-wife a happy Valentine's Day, writing via Instagram: "I thought today was gonna be really hard, and in some ways it is. But today I feel our unbreakable love for one another. I’m proud of us for protecting that and modeling what love is for our children. Today helps remind us that there is a place in our heart meant for another, and it’s the place in our heart still meant for each other that makes that feel right. I will always carry your heart, carry it in my heart. Love you Mama.”

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March 2020

"Wonder if he wants this back," the athlete captioned a photo of a signed copy of Ukulele Songs Eddie Vedder gave to his "favorite couple."

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March 2020

When asked about coparenting their newborn, Amurri wrote on her Instagram Story: "We have developed really good communication skills and we plan to figure it out as we go and stay tuned in to what this baby needs from each of us and both of us together. All we can do is our best. And we are both very committed to doing our best by this little guy.”

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March 2020

"Mama was a rockstar bringing this incredible gift into the world," Martino praised Amurri following Mateo's birth. "#ModernMartinoFamily."

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April 2020

“Fun day with the fam,” the athlete said during an Easter Instagram Live. “I’m quarantining with the ex. It’s kind of amazing, though. My ex and I are spending some really good time with the kids. We’re doing an Easter egg hunt later. Basically, [we] just fast-forwarded through a year of therapy and getting to an amazing place in three weeks because now we have to live together.

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April 2020

Amurri described Mateo’s birth — and Martino’s role in the process — in a blog post one month after the little one’s arrival, writing, “Kyle and I had officially ended our marriage a month earlier, but would continue our bond in a different way for the rest of our lives. This would truly be the beginning of a new dynamic, and one that I was sure would be much more positive for our family.”

The athlete sat in a separate room with Major, while Amurri gave birth with Marlowe, her midwives and girlfriends in the other room.

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April 2020

“He lives out of state from me and the kids so it was either he isolates on his own and not see the kids for who nows how long or we isolate together,” Amurri explained in an April 2020 Instagram Live of quarantining with Martino. “It was an obvious choice for the kids’ sake and his sake. … It’s been great, surprisingly, [but] it’s obviously had its moments.”

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May 2020

“People were really judgmental and couldn’t imagine that we would make this decision from a place of love for each other, as a positive transition for our kids,” Martino said on Fubo Sports’ The Hooligans of his and Amurri’s divorce. “Let’s show [our kids] what they should aspire to build in a successful marriage, and let’s also show them happy Mom and happy Dad, because we’re not happy together married.”

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August 2020

"The truth is we’ve never been happier because we’ve found ‘our way,'" the Georgia native wrote via Instagram of coparenting Marlowe, Major and Mateo. “Our kids now see a genuine version of parents who love them, love each other and most importantly love themselves."

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September 2020

Amurri documented Martino’s "Dad visit day” in September 2020. The athlete tickled their youngest son in her Instagram Story video while Mateo giggled.

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September 2020

"Kyle and I aren’t perfect, but we have worked hard at this new chapter,” Amurri captioned an Instagram family photo, saying their coparenting relationship was “on fleek."

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October 2020

Martino reunited with Amurri to celebrate Major’s 4th birthday, writing via Instagram: “What a great kid we made mama."

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October 2020

“It’s different this year, but I’m cool with that,” Amurri wrote via Instagram after celebrating Halloween with her estranged husband and their three kids.

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December 2020

Marlowe lost a tooth in December 2020 by kicking a soccer ball with a string tied around it, and both of her parents cheered her on. “@happilyeva with the nice assist,” Martino wrote via Instagram. “Well done mama."

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December 2020

“Mateo is going to his dad’s house every other weekend with The Bigs,” Amurri captioned an Instagram slideshow of her youngest child. “Shoutout to my Baby Daddy @kylemartino who has joined me in coming to the coparenting table with generosity, forgiveness and compassion. It truly takes two to do it and I’m grateful." She noted that her biggest "adjustment" has been letting Martino parent "his own way" at his house, which she is still learning to be "OK" with.

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January 2021

While introducing her boyfriend, Ian Hock, in a blog post, Amurri gushed, "I’m so grateful that Ian is so supportive of my coparenting relationship with Kyle. It means the world to me that he knows and understands how much Kyle means to me and to the kids, and some of my happiest days have been when we have spent time all together. I LOVE IT."

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February 2021

"Watching you grow from up close and afar and to see you become an incredible father to our kids has been such a joy for me,” Amurri wrote via Instagram while celebrating Martino’s 40th birthday. "They’re so lucky to have you, and I’m so lucky to have our friendship for life."

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May 2021

Amurri explained her choice to use divorce mediation in a blog post, writing, “We didn’t want to spend tons and tons of money unnecessarily on lawyer fees that would be better used saving for our kids’ futures. ... No matter how challenging the mediating would be, what was most important to us was to make everything as discreet and holistic as possible for the sake of our children.”

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June 2021

The exes are “lifers,” Amurri wrote via Instagram, explaining, "Coparenting has ups and downs (obviously), but ultimately if you have children together, you are family and that is that. … I’m grateful to have @kylemartino as a coparent!"

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June 2021

Amurri wished her ex a happy Father’s Day in June 2021, writing via Instagram: "Watching your evolution as a father the last couple of years has been really inspiring. You’re doing an AMAZING job. Your kids love you so deeply, and we are all so lucky to have you."

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September 2021

Amurri praised her ex-husband when he picked Marlowe up from school with flowers. “He’s taking her on a special city date,” the actress captioned an Instagram Story video of the sweet moment.

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October 2021

“Kyle and I may not be married or building a life together any longer, but we are definitely in total lock step when it comes to the kids and making sure they're as supported as possible," Amurri captioned a photo of her “boo crew” via Instagram. "It makes me really proud to see how much love they're surrounded by and how proud THEY seem of our little modern family. I definitely feel more on the same page with Kyle when it comes to the kids now as opposed to when we were married."

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November 2021

"Do You Even Vacay In Matching Jammies, Bro??” Amurri wrote via Instagram in November 2021 while on a trip with her boyfriend, her ex-husband and three kids.

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March 2022

The former couple had “the best day” celebrating son Mateo’s 2nd birthday, alongside Amurri’s boyfriend. “Buggy Nuggets, you bring the party to every day of our lives,” the actress captioned an Instagram slideshow at the time. “Nothing was sweeter today than celebrating YOU!!!!”